Hi everyone,

Repost ~

I’ve recently discovered that I lean more towards DDLG than any other type of dynamic. I do have a bratty side 🤪, but that maybe doesn’t have to exclude the other. I’ve only ever felt little while being with someone that let that side of me emerge (without doing it intentionally, reading to me, motivating me to get a stuffy and things like that). Which means , this is rather new to me, but i feel the urge for that type of trust, caregiving, protection and guidance more and more. I am looking for … that cliché rare connection. The mental part comes first to me, and the rest follows.

🎀 About my little side, unfortunately I can’t tell you much about my little age or things like that, since I’m trying to figure that out. So I’m looking for a cg that’s willing to discover it with me /guide me. I do know I would love to colour, and I love cutesy things, I decorated pacifiers (but never used them, secretly wanted to). I actually have all sorts things laying around for like arts and crafts and things like that and wanting to try them, but never did. Routines are a big part in getting into that mental space.

I have quite a demanding job with a lot of responsibilities and I’ve found that letting go in a power exchange dynamic is the most blissful thing. It also makes me private with identifying information, so it takes me a while to warm up to someone and trust them. Which means if you’re looking for someone who will send you pictures right away, we probably won’t match.

💁‍♀️ A little about myself. I’m 1.73m, dutch (west of Europe), long blonde hair, green/ blue eyes, average build. Single, no kids. I am kind, caring, loyal but also a bit stubborn (which is both a good and bad thing), playful and open minded.

I’m looking for someone who is caring and can guide me. Preferably around my age (30-40 as an idea) and I’m looking for mono (I don’t play well with others and I don’t share what’s mine). Looking for online to start but with the goal this becoming irl (so if you’re far away from me, that will be difficult). I need someone who’s patient and playful. Who can banter as much as they can be serious when it’s needed. And someone who just feels they are a caregiver, naturally like an instinct or a true “drive” and not an act.

Kink wise I’m open to many things we can discuss more in private. Favorites are edging/ orgasm control, praise, light impact play, toys.

I probably left out information that could be relevant or important to you, feel free to ask me anything, im an open book (for the most part ☺️)