Hey everyone,

Rather than post a novel on myself I figure just listing out bullet points would be ideal to cut through the fat.

me:

• 5'11", 180lbs, lean athletic, brown hair, brown eyes.
• located in southeast usa
• solid career and family-oriented
• socially aware enough to recognize when and how to say things, whether that's within a dynamic or in a vanilla setting, whether private or public.
• 0 desire in talking sex and kink right up front. I heavily emphasize the mental connection because I'm a firm believer once that's established, the emotions and physical intimacy naturally comes after.
• love languages for receiving - acts of service, physical touch, quality time
• love languages for giving - words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch.
• goofy and witty as fuck

You

• Naturally submissive, as in this is who you are at your core and you don't like making decisions, to whatever degree it is. Your friends would all agree unanimously you're the sweet one if I were to ask them.
• takes care of her health - I exercise regularly and expect you to as well. Health is wealth, and makes for many more possibilities and opportunities both inside and outside the bedroom. That said I'm not expecting olympian level body, just someone who clearly prioritizes it.
• height, idc, age prefer younger, above 22, but around me is fine as well. Slightly older can work but in my experience it doesn't work as well.
• single and into monogomy - cant believe i even have to disclose this lol also not into sharing, so no enm, poly, etc.
• open minded and rooted in reality about humanity and how neither of us are perfect and always seeking improvement.
• not a brat - I work 9-11 hour days sometimes. I'm not trying to come home to 'put you in your place' or 'tame you'. Please be my piece, not find ways to give me stress.
• As for kinks, I've done this for about 10 years and have essentially explored as much as one humanly can. That said I definitely lean towards the free use and fuck toy dynamics (which I can give you examples of because it's often misunderstood).

There's a lot more but this would be a great place to start. If you feel we'd connect well then shoot me a note with a bit about yourself, and an alternative way to contact you. I know what I want and am happy to share more should we vibe in our initial conversation. Also don't take myself too seriously and won't be getting dirty and entitled off the bat - that's earned both ways.

Please understand I'm not here to RP, trade pics, waste time. I'll respect you as a person first and do appreciate effort when it's returned.

Thank you!