in case you missed it, I am looking for someone exclusively from the USA, while I have gotten an amazing turnout from previous posts that seems to have missed a ton of people.

I'm going to start with a couple things that may be deal breakers for people so that way no one has their time wasted.

• I am not looking for anything poly or ENM, I am way too possessive for that kinda shit lol, if youre mine youre mine ya know?
• I have a vasectomy. Meaning no kids will be happening.
• I have aspd. And while it's well managed. It still exists for me and impacts me. if you have questions about this you can message me about it
• I would like for my kink partner to work towards being a romantic partner as well. In order for me to dom you I have to enjoy you. And if I enjoy you, then chances are I could see something romantic with you.

Now to the meat and potatoes.

Communication is important to me. I feel like more so than a standard relationship communication is insanely important in a dynamic. If you're in a good mood bad mood, depressed happy angry, communicate. If something I did made you angry? Communicate. If something I did made you happy? Communicate.

I also take kink slowly. I want to know you. Enjoy you. And more than anything trust you prior to us getting into kink. Now I'm not saying you're going to be waiting months to start shit, but if I don't feel like I know you as a person, chances are we don't know each other well enough for me to hit you with all of the kinks you crave.

As for kinks. Due to the whole aspd thing I've fit many different hats over the years. I've done the hard shit whether it's heavy impact play, cnc, knife play, tpe, to the lighter stuff of praise ddlg and just a total soft dom. I am genuinely fine with any option and everything in between. I just love kink in general, I can have an overwhelmingly positive experience without even getting undressed. Let me know your kinks and chances are I have experience with them and love them.

Fitness is important to me. I was insanely overweight but have since shed a ton of that weight off and started running 4 times a week. It's not necessary that you are in and out of the gym or running with me but it would be nice.

I fucking love to cook. Whether it's Is mediterranean, Mexican, European, American. It doesn't matter. I love to make it. And I would love to cook for you.

Gaming is also something I thoroughly enjoy. I want a partner I can play games with on pc. Whether that's fps like val or overwatch or apex or marvel rivals. Or even deadlock and maybe league if you're down to teach me.

Playing games together is massive to me because it's such a good way to spend time together even if we are long distance.

I work in video production so I end up being at my desk a good portion of my day. But that also means I can work anywhere there's an internet connection.

Ultimately I'm looking for someone 21-35. If you're outside of that range that's fine if you think we would be a good fit. but when you message, tell me about yourself. so I have something to go off of.