if i could use only three words to describe my approach to kink, it would be: curious, apprehensive, and eager. my experience is somewhat limited, and while kink seems incredibly fun, it also feels quite scary. that said, i can be avoidant and often get scared when it comes to vulnerability. i’m hoping to connect with someone patient who’s willing to take the time to get to know me— i promise i’m really fun and interesting (i think)!

the regular side of me: i’m nerdy and enthusiastic about all things history. i love literature and would happily read for a living if i could. i’m also working on becoming a movie buff. i have tons of hobbies that i’d love to share, but this post might get too long!

as for the not-so-regular side of me: i’m limited in experience and looking to explore slowly with someone who is ideally patient, genuine, and not going to bombard with off the bat with a million requests to get naked and show my parts, bent over. while exhibitionism is fun, i’m looking for a rather genuine connection.

i think there's often a tendency in these types of spaces to jump straight into things, which can be fun, but i'm more intrigued by the idea of genuinely getting to know someone over the course of a few months. i want to learn more about you rather than just being dominated into submission.

what i’d love to get out of this connection: honestly, i’m still figuring it all out. as someone new to kink, i feel a bit apprehensive but also excited to explore. i’m looking to understand myself sexually, whether through your stories or more hands-on experiences like orgasm control.

i would absolutely love a space where i can ask questions, explore without pressure, and simply see where things lead. if you’re seeking something super serious and long-term right now with someone who’s super experienced, i might not be the right fit. i’m just as uncertain about what i want for myself, and i’m hoping to learn as i go! :)

so, if you’re (a) not married/in a relationship, (b) a fan of really detailed messages with effort, (c) someone who’s also super cool and interested in chatting about life, kink, and everything in-between and (d) between the ages of 22-31 (give or take), please do send me a private message.

p.s: chats tend to get ignored cuz i get overwhelmed easily.