Are you looking for a secret pocket pet to obsess over all day?

About me: Married, happily, not looking to change that. But I fantasize about having a secret pocket boyfriend, who I can't wait to talk to in the morning, obsess over all day and go to sleep dreaming about. I want to share our days with each other, chatting about anything and everything, flirting and teasing each other all day, and get into kinky stuff too. I am on the shorter side and of an average build (but not a bbw), trying to get back into fitness (and if you want to help push me, all the better). I'm not looking for a one time fling, I want a long term, earth shattering, make me question my marriage relationship.

About you: You a soft dom type, ideally are married, looking for spice and a connection to obsess over all day long. You can keep a conversation going and want to talk all day. You are attractive, you aren't overweight, maybe you are fit and want to push me to be better too, but not a requirement. You love music in many forms, and want to share what you're listening to with me frequently (and enjoy listening to what I share too) Bonus if you want to give me kinky directives to fulfill in the bedroom with my spouse(secretly of course!), for which I can report back to you. Ideally you are within an hour of CST timezone.

I want us to be willing to send pictures (sfw to start, but open to nsfw if the connection is right), voice and maybe even video calls. I will exchange pictures quickly to ensure there is mutual attraction. I want someone who really wants to share their days with me in as many ways as possible as our relationship blossoms and evolves.

If you're interested in this kind of relationship, send me a chat with the following to prove you can read:
1- The song that you currently have on repeat
2 - something you would like me to know about you
3- a question you have for me

Chats that don't cover these will be ignored :)