Hi, I'm James. I'm 31, 6'2", with a fit/muscular build (~185lbs), with brown hair and eyes. About me: I grew up in the south before going to college at the air force academy, then spent 5 years in the air force before switching to the private sector, living in SC currently. For hobbies, I'm into fitness, traveling, reading, snowboarding, and building a car I've been working on a few years. I'm single, never married/no kids, no drugs, and don't drink that often. For values, I'm a Christian and lean conservative politically. Regarding what I'm looking for, I want an intentional LTR with the potential for it to turn into something more. I'm not looming for a fling or something short and fun. I've spent most of my adult life focusing on my career and want to focus on the next step and eventually building a family. I'm only interested in single/monogamous people, and I'd also like someone who shares my religious and political values. I think shared values are fumdamental for any relationship. I'm looking for someone who is also into fitness, or who will at least go to the gym with me and be a gym partner. It's a great power couple thing when you both live and support each other in a healthy lifestyle. For kinks, I'd describe myself as a soft dom. I have no desire to hurt you (not kink shaming if that's what anyone is into), but I'll be able to throw you around if you need. For specific kinks, we can talk more in detail about those 1-on-1. Just come with a high sex drive and a passion to work on the dynamic together and we'll work well. Additionally, I don't want kink to be the entirety of the relationship. I want something wholesome and traditional, just with the added benefit of getting crazy with each other behind closed doors! If we connect, I'd like to move off reddit pretty quickly. Let's jump on a call, have a normal conversation and see how well we enjoy each other's company. Happy to exchange pics or just do a facetime call as well. Thanks for reading and good luck to everyone out there!