DISCLAIMER:

Some people seem to conflate an interest in the power dynamics that come with it with an actual desire to cause harm to a non-consenting person.

I do not, and have no desire for any non-consensual happenings.

There are also a lot of people who claim that they want a power dynamic, but then don't do any of the necessary safety prep to ensure that everyone is safe and happy in the scenario.

If you are not willing to take your time with a kink as potentially harmful and extreme roleplay, then I am not the dom for you.

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Here's a little about me:

I value informed and enthusiastic consent.

I value the person who is trusting me to do right by them when they are at their most vulnerable.

I may act maliciously, and speak as though I have no regard for you, or your limits. It's all just that: an act. It's a switch that I can flip at any given moment. I'm always in control of myself- even if the scenario seems like it's getting out of hand.

I've always been the kind of person who seeks out new experiences and sensations all the time.

New people to talk to, new places to see, new tastes, and sights, and smells.

When it comes to sex, however, I would say that I treat it as a way to deeper understand the people I know and interact with. To me, sex hinges on our abilities to let go. To stop thinking. To let the world melt away while myself and my partner experience one another in the most intimate way that I can think of.

I'm very "service-oriented" in my dominance. I like to fill the exact role that my submissive needs from me. If you need Daddy, then you get him. If you need cruelty, then you will receive it. If you want to be objectified and abused, then I will happily do so.

It all depends on our negotiations.

But enough of that! You're here for the sexy stuff, not my kinky philosophy.

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The sexy stuff:

I will do all in my power to ensure that, when you're with me, you'll never know if the hand on the back of your head will stroke your hair, or force you onto your knees and fuck your throat until you gag and spit.

When I give hugs, I like to completely envelop you with my arms and pull you tightly into me.

When I hold you tight, I want you to realise just how easily I could snap you into pieces if I ever felt like it.

When I hold your hand, I want you to know that you couldn't pull away from my grip, even if you wanted to.

Whenever I touch you, I want you to understand just how small and weak you are when compared to a predator like myself.

I want you to feel safe and secure, yet also trapped: like a canary in a golden cage.

To make my partners taste how turned on they are. I  like to shove my fingers deep into their pussies, and then force them down their throat

To make people assume positions, crawl, and beg for what I give them. Doesn't matter if it's pleasure or pain. If I'm giving it to you, then you will beg for it, accept it, and thank me for it.

I like to give firm and rough grips on the arm and wrist that can cause slight bruises, slaps to remind you of your place, and forced free use, no matter when and where.

You may not even be allowed to wear any kind of bottom except for a skirt around me, either. No panties. I want easy access to what's mine. That way, if I get sick of your attitude, and decide that you need correcting, I'll be able to do so with minimal obstruction.

If I cum in you, and you decide to waste that cum by letting it spill out, then I'll force you to lick it up

If I decide that I want to use you, then it will happen.

Nothing you say, other than your safe word, will stop me, and resistance will only make me hurt you.

How badly?

That depends on your tolerance for pain, and what your boundaries are.

I want a natural good girl, who recognise their place and offer themselves to me when I (or they) desire, will be treated with all of the kindness and softness that I can muster.

There are times you want attention, and need to be reminded of where they stand. I treat this behaviour on a case-by-case basis, and escalate based on the severity of their behaviour. The more fiercely you resist, the stronger the disciplinarian you will get.

If I have my way, then you'll never feel truly at ease. Even the tightest and most genuine feeling hug could quickly become an assault.

You'll be just a warm fuckdoll who gets to play like she's human when around other people.

No matter what I do to you, or how much you hate what is happening in the moment, you will recognise that you are at your most beautiful when your makeup is ruined, your body aches, and your holes leak. And still, you will thank me for it.

I am excellent at maintaining a sweet tone and kind smile when I'm punishing someone, or treating them cruelly.

You'll start to overanalyse my body language, and attempt to figure our if there is any malice behind my warm smile and kind eyes. Every gesture I make towards you, large or small, will case your heart to jump.

Will I stroke your face, or will I slap it? Will I run my fingers through your hair, or will I grab a handful and drag you to the bedroom.

Do I really want to snuggle, or am I waiting for you to relax, just so I can take advantage?

I want you to always be on the back foot, and in fear of what I may do to you. But I also want you to always know that I will never push you beyond the limits that we set beforehand.

As long as the person I'm with consents 100%, and I don't have any worries about their communication abilities, then the only limits are the ones we agree upon, which will always continue to evolve especially if you are new to this world.

As the sub, the real power rests with you. I can only do what you consent to. Anything else is just abuse masquerading as kink.

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I know that this was a lot to read, but I try to take a kink with so much potential for danger very seriously.

If you're curious:

My ever expanding list of kinks includes: spanking, forced orgasms, multiple orgasms, anal training, collars, mental conditioning, bruises, choking, rope/ribbon bondage, free use, pet training, and (my personal favourite) breeding/creampies.

I'll leave you with a few questions:

If you made this far, shoot me a message answering the questions below:

General information: location (currently only looking in London as I seek IRL experiences), age and experience with kink (those with and without experience are equally welcomed).

What do you want the most in a potential relationship? (Play partners, short term, long term, etc)

What is it about your role that you enjoy the most, and how can I facilitate scenarios that satisfy both of our wants and needs?