Being single over the Christmas break has got me in a mood... Are you the one to keep me warm these cold winter nights?

About me
Per the title I'm a 25 year old cis-male from The Netherlands. My favorite way to spend a weekend night is watching terrible rom-com movies (looking at you Pride & Prejudice), video games or reading. I work a corporate job that keeps me entertained throughout the day, and am just about done with my education. This past couple of weeks I've been getting back in the gym, so that feels pretty good.

Intentions
The playful nature of a brat/tamer dynamic is the thing I'm on the lookout for the most here. Ideally my partner would enjoy the push and pull of obeying and getting rewarded, or disobeying and getting punished.

I'm open to something IRL, but am mostly looking for something online at this moment. Also open to something short-term, but would definitely prefer something long-term. If you are looking for something more short-term please keep in mind we will not be playing before having a thorough discussion of kinks and limits, as well as safewords and aftercare.

To be especially clear I do want to list a few things I'm explicitly NOT looking for:
- TPE; I'd love it if my partner works on achieving personal goals and ideals too. And though I love communicating throughout the day, my days can get pretty packed, which just makes this unrealistic.
- Little play; though I love being called Daddy I am not into little play.
- Cheating; I'm strictly monogamous, and would prefer if you were too, but am open to ENM.

Kinks
I'll just list a couple of my favourite kinks here so you can get an idea of what I'm into.
- Begging;
- Bondage;
- Light degradation;
- Nipple play;
- Orgasm control/denial;
- Praise;
- Punishments and rewards;
- Rough sex;
- Spanking;
- Low protocol.

The above are obviously kinks, but I do definitely have a more vanilla side too.

Please feel free to reach out and send me a chat or a direct message.