27 [M4F] #Online Soft dom looking for meaningful connection

Hey everyone !

First thing you should know is that I'm new to all this. I always have been more dominant but never in a real dom/sub relationship. So if you are looking for someone with a lot of experience maybe I'm not the right guy. That said it's something that has always interested me, that's why I'm looking to explore that online, hopefully fining the right match.

I really value connection, trust and communication, in every aspects of my life, and i believe it's even more important in this kind of dynamics. I'm looking for something long-term only (well if we match obviously). As i said, connection is very important to me, and i need to get to know the person I'm talking to before beginning to think about bringing it further (that doesn't mean we need to talk for 1 years before anything, but you get the point). Ideally, I see it as a relation where we deeply and genuinely care for each other, having regular exchange, and just generally being happy to get a message from the other person. I'm someone that has a lot of attention and care to give, if the right person is in front of me.

So a bit about me : I'm Julien, a 27 years old french guy. I'm 6'1, pretty fit without being too muscular, short blond hair with deep blue eyes. I like to say that I'm walking through life a bit randomly, stumbling upon stuff and trying to make the most of it, but still keeping projects and ideas of where i want to go, just enjoying the path even more. I like change, novelty and adapting (that's also why i want to discover the world of BDSM). I love nature, sports, walking, cooking, well every basic stuff everybody does haha.

I can talk about anything, two of the subject I'm really interested in are astronomy and philosophical question about consciousnesses.

about what i'm offering : As i said i'm really caring, and have a lot of love to offer. So i will mostly be like a soft dom. But i believe it's quite reducing to say that, as we are humans and our attitude, needs and wants can vary. I want to guide you through life, be someone you can look up to when you need. I want to have influence over your decision, always in your best interest, i want to make your life easier and more enjoyable by taking a lot of weight off your shoulders. I'll always be there when you need to talk, laugh, cry, scream ... you will be able to count on me anytime. Obviously we will discuss that and hopefully find something that works for both of us

What I'm looking for : Well i think you understood it already, but I'm looking for a girl that would submit to me, and look up to me with praise and admiration. Someone that is thankful for what i bring her and who is not afraid to show it. Someone that is willing to follow my rules. Obviously all of that i will have to earn, as i said connection and trust are the basis for me. I also need to be physically attracted to you (and you to me), so I'm mostly into fit or "normal" build. Exchanging pics, videos, voice message, calls is also mandatory. I would prefer 30 and younger, but i'm also open to more than 30, as long as the feeling is great between us.

As for kinks i'm pretty open to discover anything that's not a hard limit and we can discuss it in private

Only things that are hard limits for me are : beastiality, scato, blood play, knives/needles/puncture play, extreme pain/permanent markings, underage

If you read all this and think we could be a fit, feel free to DM me, include your Age, location, name (or how you want to be called), and your favorite dish !

I hope you all the best <3