Howdy there. Most people call me Doc. I'm not a doctor but I've always been pretty brainy so it's a nickname that's pretty fitting and has stuck around. If I had to put what I'm looking for into words, I'd say I'm looking for something interesting. About me: I consider myself a soft/pleasure dom. Any brute can scare people into submission. I think it's much hotter for someone to cast aside their shame and submit solely because they want to sink into a world of desire and pleasure. As such I love foreplay and toys with in person partners. With longer distance phone sex and lovenses or other controllable toys are my stock in trade. I think it is the job of a pleasure dom to give their partners what they need, and sometimes that is pain or punishment. So even though I am a soft dom, those are still tools I am willing to use. They're just not what I prefer to use. I am a big nerd. I love games that make you think. Logic puzzles, TCGs, deckbuilding games, RPGs, TTRPGs, been getting into chess lately. Of course I work in tech (absolutely not a tech bro, though) And if I'm being honest I kind of look the part too. Long hair, beard, glasses, bear body type. About you: I love interesting people and try to surround myself with them. I have a weakness for alt/goth styles. Obviously I like women on the submissive side but a little bit of resistance at times makes things more fun. And that's pretty much it. I try to keep myself open to whoever thinks we might click because you never know until you interact with someone. This has been kind of scattered and rambley so thanks for sticking it out. If you liked what you heard shoot me a message. If not, good luck finding the right fit for you.
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