Incomprehensible, Gatsby-esque yearning:

I am looking for an obsessive dynamic which explores the psychological side of kink. Simply put, I desire to be hopelessly wrapped around the finger of an enchanting woman. Giving myself over to her coquettish charms comes naturally. I'm flexible on the specific arrangement; It might look like a doting daddy and bratty princess, or a knight/lady dynamic, or perhaps you're the siren to my sea captain (just don't kill me for real).

My ideal dynamic will depend on my bond with my lady, it will arise organically and feel natural for us both. I'm a service top/sub/whatever, so there are plenty of ways to please that feel meaningful to me without "topping from the bottom." The contrast between our sexes, and the blurry nature of the power dynamic, is a source of excitement for me.

While the dynamic between us is the most important thing to me, I find gentle and manipulative means of domination the most alluring. The psychological aspect of dominance and submission is very intense to me. Hopefully I have described what I'm looking for with sufficient clarity that it speaks my complement. A few specific kinks I enjoy are: Body worship, teasing/denial, orgasm control, breeding, dirty talk, acts of service, and more.

It's only right that I introduce myself a bit: Hi.

What did I mean by an "intellectual caveman," anyway? I'll start with a physical description; I'm 5'8", 175lbs. My build is somewhat athletic. I have shoulder-length brown hair and green eyes. I've been told I'm not hard to look at. I'm rather bookish by nature; I have an advanced degree, work in a psychology clinic, and spend time reading and writing.

However, a core philosophy of mine is that humans aren't disembodied brains, floating in jars - we are embodied beings, with more than a trace of the animal in us. We must be physically and spiritually cultivated. To that end, I spend significant time weight lifting, hiking, rock climbing, biking, and traveling. Physical expression is important to me, and at least some form of it should be to you as well.

I am looking for someone in the Northeast US. If you have read this far, you know whether you're into this madness or not. If you are, shoot me a message and tell me a bit about yourself. Perhaps we'll hit it off.