Since submission and domination are a form of expressing love, let's focus on the latter first as we dive down the rabbit hole of getting to each others desires.
I'm 25 years old, 6'2 and working in the tech industry. As for what I'm looking for is mostly comprised of love and intimacy. And by intimacy I don't necessarily mean physical intimacy, emotional intimacy is just as important, if not more, that the physical aspects of it. Thus, having a balance between lust and care.
Having an emotional bond that's build on love and trust is an important aspect, as no matter the kind of a bonds people have between them, if there isn't enough trust in it, it would get harder to progress further. So that's what we should focus on establishing first.
As kink is another expression of love, just like any other, it shouldn't be limited to just a singular place, like the bedroom. If both the partners have a mutual understanding between them and a mutual desire to extend this expression into something that's a bit more, it shouldn't be limited between such tight boundaries.
That would be a basic idea for the kind of a person that I'm looking for, someone who won't be afraid to take my hand as we begin our next chapter into something that's not bound by just our kinks, but bound by who we are in as well as outside of it.
BDSM won't be the base of who we are, rather it would be a part of us because of our mutual likes and our desire to explore.
As this would be built on trust and understanding, let's just talk and get to know more about each other before diving into anything.
If you'd like to introduce yourself or would like to talk more about this, send a pm or start a chat.
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