Hello fellow kinksters!

I'm seeking a strong and confident woman, who loves to engage in a playful challenge for control.

32M, from germany here. 1,80 tall, average body type (not fat nor super muscular), short hair, looking good in a suit :)

I am a man, straight and mostly been the dominant partner in my relationships - though we never engaged in real kinky stuff or D/s - dynamics, just the usual vanilla stuff. Except for some light bondage and soft teasing.

Lately I'm more curious into leaning into my submissive side. I had the joy to engage in some single sessions before. They were good, but as I rather do enjoy the power dynamics and mind games, I'm now looking for some longterm commitment.

Starting with the SFW work stuff: I'm 32, got a stable job which leaves me busy most of the days - leaving only the evenings and some weekends for my spare time. But I do love my job and am fine with my current living situation. I'm currently single and enjoy my independence. I've got a huge fondness for games and puzzles. Wether be it online videogames (I did cut short on those some time ago, not playing a lot anymore - but still enjoy them when I do) or classical board games, escape rooms, riddles or some strategic board games like Chess & Go. In my daily life, I'm not the one to be submissive or hide - I'm rather the opposite at my job - being in charge, calling some shots, being independent to some point.

Kinks

Cum Control, Edging, Joi, Tease & Denial

Chastity & Orgasm Denial

Light Bondage

Less preferred Kinks:

Ass Play

Light to Medium Pain

Humiliation

Bondage

Wax

Soft limits:

Safe public play

Heavy Pain (I hope that it does not become a Hard Limit)

Pee

Feminization

Breath Play

Forced Bi (close to being a hard limit)

Hard limits (At least, those that I'm aware of):

Showing my Face

scat, blood and anything permanent or extreme

Risky Public-Stuff

I already do own some toys, willing to buy more.

As I already said above, I'm a lot into mind games, never been totally owned before and I do love games, and always appreciate a challenge. So why not combine those. What I'm looking for is a longterm D/s-Dynamic, starting pretty "soft" continuing to end up pushing my limits and breaking me, until I'm a totally obedient Puppy.

The only rule to start by would be something like: Whatever rule we establish and I agree to, I must follow. So for example, if I agree for you to deny my orgasms up to 3 days. That rule is binding. That in case will give you a bit of more power, though you could offer me some relief before the 3 days are over in exchange for another rule (like pushing me on my soft limits or increase the denial range). We continue until I'm completly under your mercy - Do your worst and try to break me ;)

So we would start out real simple, leading to more and more power exchange. Maybe we could make some use of the "obedience-App". But we can just see, what works best while playing.

So I'm looking for a woman, who does love the challenge. Someone who is mentally strong and cunning enough, to make me submit and finally break my resistance. A strong woman, who loves to play me and knows how to play her cards. To make me give in to you, offering you more and more control as our relationship goes on. Start by sneaking in some little rules, which might make me desperate to obey you more and more, pushing me beyond my (soft) limits.

Please be conscious of: Though I'm willing to fully commit to this, I'm not looking for any kind of romantic relationship.

So if you're up for the challenge (I can be quite stubborn some times, so this won't be an easy task! :), shoot me a message!

Rad