Quick Stats: M31 6’1” White, 168lbs, Athletic Build, Baltimore MD

https://www.reddit.com/user/1d_SHiP_1t/comments/1ffbowk/profile_pic/#lightbox

Good morning and Happy Holidays! Hopefully the chaos of last minute shopping isn't driving you crazy. Before I explain that confusing title, you have probably read entirely too many mediocre M4F posts, so let me give you a few quick reasons why this post is worth your time:

• I have been called “hot” enough times to at least know I am attractive (pics in profile)
• I have a secure jobs in a skilled trade with steady hours, comfortable pay, and benefits (including a pension)
• I have not interest in drugs and barely drink socially
• I am a great conversationalist/communicator with an artist’s soul, loads of nerdy charm, and unrelenting dumb puns
• All of my kinks revolving around you feeling pleasure, so I promise that there will be no lack of effort on my end to make you feel good

OK. Now that I hopefully have your attention, I suppose I should explain that confusing title. After almost three years of meeting and chatting with the people in the BDSM community (mostly through Reddit), I have noticed that most women who like to be submissive in play also like to be submissive in their day to day lives. They want a man to take control and make the hard decisions, while they sort of go along for the ride, happy to play a supportive role for their Dom, Daddy, or sometimes even Master. Now, I am not here to kink shame. I believe that people should have the freedom to do whatever makes them happy, as long as it is between legally consenting adults. But that type of dynamic is not the relationship I want with my partner.  

I like women with rich personalities. Women who have deeply rooted passions and goals in life. The kind of gals who can go on long winded rants in almost superfluous detail of their hobbies or interests and love sharing ideas with those who feel the same. It can be anything from a passion for arts and performance, to a fascination with the most intricate of sciences, to even a simple love of baking and craft making. My ideal gal is a feminist who chooses me not because she needs a partner, but because she wants one. I want a partner who isn't afraid to call me on my bullsh*t or tease me. A partner who shares a love of learning and revels in the idea of waxing poetic about any of our hobbies, late into the evening. A partner who will challenge and inspire me to be the best version of myself, so I can inspire her to do the same. So, I know what you are thinking. If this is the case, why am I posting here? 

Well, when it comes to kink, I want a confident partner who secretly craves submission. After a long day at work or spending so much time and energy on her passions, deep down she just desperately wants to turn off her brain and drift into subspace. I want nothing more than to give her that space. A space where she feels safe enough to let down all her walls and embrace the submissive slut she craves to be. In return, I will feel safe enough to share all of my inner fantasies and depravities with her, without fear of judgment or ridicule. Rather than be a lifestyle or full time dynamic, I want kink to be an escape for us. An intimate hobby we love to share that lets us turn off the world and focus entirely on each other. Call it kinky Zen.

Anyway, hopefully that gives you a better idea of what that title means. If you liked what you read and want to know more about me, there is entirely too much information on my profile, so feel free to check that out. If you think we might hit it off, then feel free to toss me a message. A word of warning though. I am a bit picky when it comes to physical attraction, so please either send a body pic in your first message or early on in the conversation (nothing lewd and no face for your privacy). There are three on my profile, so I am not asking for more than I have already given. Regardless of my attraction, I promise to treat anyone who reaches out with the gratitude and respect that they deserve. And with that, I wish you a festive rest of your holiday season and very happy new year.