Hi there! I'm a tall, well-educated pleasure dom based in central Europe who loves to use my enthusiasm, creativity, wit and playfulness to put my partner in their rightful place. Whether that is on my lap getting headpats or on your knees before me depends entirely on you.

What I'm looking for

• Short or long term dynamic
• Ideally with someone based in Europe or nearby for time zone reasons
• We'd eventually meet up after getting comfortable with each other online
• Open to monogamy, ENM, poly
• Physical attraction matters, but an emotional/intellectual connection matters more
• None of the above are dealbreakers

The dynamic

I want something built on a genuine connection, consent, trust and mutual respect, where we can explore our sexualities and kinks together as we both see fit. Personally, I enjoy sexting, sending voice messages, pictures, videos and having phone sex, but that of course depends on what we're both comfortable with. There should also be plenty of room for emotional care, sharing music and memes, having intellectual conversations etc. I'm not interested in any TPE type dynamic.

Who am I?

I'm a laid-back and open-minded person who doesn't take himself too seriously. I work in research and definitely qualify as a nerd. My interests involve chess, gaming, reading, writing, playing/listening to music, movies/series, anime/manga, vegan food, video essays, science, political issues and much more. I can talk endlessly about any of these subjects with someone, so try me!

Physically, I am tall with broad shoulders and an average build, hairy chest, shaved head, glasses and short, well-kept beard. Will share pics when comfortable.

My kinks

While I am quite adaptive kink-wise and mainly get off of fulfilling my partner's fantasies, I have previously really enjoyed being dominant and wrangling brats. I love the contrast of being nurturing, caring, comforting and understanding as compared to being a stern dom, using whatever means it takes to make my partner accept that I am in charge. I can have switchy tendencies for the right person, for those who enjoy that kind of thing.

There is honestly nothing sexier to me than deep trust and consent. Therefore, none of the kinks below are a necessity for me to have in a D/s dynamic. I prefer to adapt and meet my partner somewhere in the middle where we both enjoy ourselves.

Kinks: teasing, praising, guiding, cnc, dubcon, bdsm, light degradation and humiliation, orgasm control/denial, brat wrangling, pain play, sensory deprivation, rough sex, restriction, pussy/cock worship, cunnilingus, cum play

Hope to hear from you!