Heya! If you're reading this, happy holidays! I hope you all are getting into the christmas spirit! I certainly am, hence why I'm hoping to find a warm connection in the winter months. I'd love to get to know a fun domme and maybe start a dynamic, get to know someone beyond just the kinky side, and truly build a deeper connection. So allow me to try and sell you on why you should send yours truly a message and maybe we can have a chat!

To start with, let me tell you a bit about my general vibe. I'm a 24 year old queer Dutch guy and I'd say i fit certain stereotypes, like being over 6 feet tall and very direct, although the latter could be my autism! So if you can appreciate direct open communication and someone who's honest to a fault I'm sure we'd get along swimmingly! Although fair warning, this also means my brain is chaotic often. Consider this a gentle warning. :)

In terms of appearance i look pretty alternative, with shoulder length blonde hair, a short beard, a tattoo with more to follow, and usually dressed in darker colors and nerdy t-shirts or band merch! So if you're someone who enjoys or also fits that vibe, hit me up!

Speaking of nerdy stuff, i have a lot of nerdy interests! So if you enjoy video games, movies, pop culture, table top RPG's, fantasy, writing, folklore/mythology or anything of the sort I'm sure we'll have plenty to talk about! And if you don't share many of these I'm always open to learning about new interests!

Now for the part we're all secretly or not so secretly here for, the kinky side! While i prefer to discuss the nitty gritty in an actual conversation I can't exactly leave you with nothing to go off of, now can i? So here's a little rundown to give you an idea!

As i am a very affectionate (and submissive) person I'm a big fan of gentle dommes. So this is what I'm hoping to find. I like the mommy domme side, but this is optional. A bit of a mean streak is totally welcome, as long as it's balanced with gentleness and care. It would be nice to find someone from my country or timezone, but don't let that stop you from applying! I'm always happy to meet people around the world. Age wise I'm open to anyone age 20-50. I do definitely have a preference for older women though, so please don't be afraid to reach out if you are! Only single people or people practicing ENM/polyamory please. This is non negotiable. I'm open to both short term and long term. IRL is preferable, but I'm open to online only as well. It all depends on how well we get along and what we both would like out of our connection.

All body types are very much welcome, though i must admit i have a thing for plus size women. Should you, dear reader, be someone who partakes in the wondrous world of gender non-comformity, and consider yourself a femme or androgynous presenting person you are more than welcome in my DM's as well!

What i like most about being a sub and what I like to think makes me a good one, is that i get a sense of comfort from following clear instructions, i genuinely enjoy proper and open communication and nothing makes me happier and more turned on than seeing a partner who's clearly enjoying themselves. The feeling of letting go of control is an added bonus as a naturally anxious person haha.

I'll share a few kinks i really love and some hard limits, so you know a bit of what to expect should the conversation end up going in the NSFW direction If you like the sound of any of the following, we might be a great fit:

-Facesitting and ass smothering -Body worship -edging and following JOI -Making out, spit, licking and tongues -Mommy domming -Praise (warning, you will get me flustered) -Anything involving hands. This is a recent addition to my kinky corner and I'm curious to explore more!

A few soft limits are heavier degradation and ruined orgasms or long term denial

Some hard limits are extreme pain, scat, sounding, blood, vomit, cuckolding, findom, chastity cages and permanent markings

I will leave it here, since this is getting way too rambly and long, but if you made it this far, first of all thank you for making it this far through my rambling of questionable coherence. If I sparked your interest, please be so kind to include your age, gender and location in your opening message. An SFW picture is also welcome, but entirely optional!No need if it makes you uncomfortable.

If you read everything open your message with your favorite food so i know you've made it down here! Hopefully I'll hear from you soon!