I fully realize I'm probably in the wrong place as I'm looking for something that's got a vanilla dating/long term relationship foundation where we both feel valued and NOT casual BUT this kink is kind of hard to find a match for so here I am in the NSFW underworld of Reddit. For me this is a deeply intimate/kinky/sensual/erotic aspect I'd enjoy in a regular vanilla romantic LTR. I want a mutually respectful, supportive relationship. Physical and emotional intimacy.

So. Are you into Breast Worship/Play/ANR? Are you kind, caring, encouraging, and sensual? Dom leaning? A leftist, progressive, non trump supporter? Most importantly, do you actually want to spend the time getting to know someone, and build trust?

Try to think about it like this: We met on a vanilla dating app and you just happen to know and enjoy one of my cheat codes in bed ahead of time. I’m in no rush to get into bed.

Me: I'm 33, 5'4" a Petite BBW (short, small end of plus size). Biracial. Dark curly hair. Warm smile. Glasses. Happy to discuss a full list of interests and limits after some regular getting to know you. Love praise, not into punishment. Not into age play. I’m not into 24/7 or high protocol. Kinda vanilla kinky sprinkles, honestly. But sex positive and open to ideas.

Lefty politics. Fierce. Sarcastic. Sassy. Vaxxxxed and Boosted. Love my two rescue pitties. Podcast listener, true crime watcher. No kids. Artsy. Retired pop punk emo girlie. I don't smoke or drink. 420 okay.

YOU: A sensual guy who craves breast play. Won’t call me “mommy”. About 32-42 (slightly flexible on this range) who is actually dating/LTR oriented. Be kind. Be respectful. Be self aware. Be lefty/progressive with a solid understanding of social issues (DEALBREAKER). Be Vaxed (dealbreaker again). A good and consistent communicator with emotional intelligence, therapy is a plus in my book.

Be passionate and curious. Pursue me. Have hobbies other than weed/comic books/ crypto/video games/anime. Don’t have a cat… I’m really allergic. Be Single - NO married, separated, ENM, or partnered men (Dealbreaker... I know, I know).

If this interests you in anyway, please send a chat introduce yourself and tell me your favorite ice cream flavor so I know you’ve taken the time to read what I’ve written. Then maybe after some chatting a real date!