Trying my best to write an effective post amongst the ocean of r4r right here, so if you stumbled across this, stick around. Trust me it's worth it. I realize this sounds cocky, but I just know myself. What makes me so confident? The way I approach this and the way I'd treat you. I thing communication and effort are my biggest qualities in this, so anytime I'd make sure we are understanding each other's needs and desire (the fact I am the dominant partner does not mean that just my desires needs to be fulfilled). Also, I'm not just looking for a "one time thing". My hopes are to find at least a friend in this, as the title says, combining both sides of caretaking and domination. Last but not least, you can expect discretion and honesty all the time from me. I think trust Is the fundamental thing in any sort of relationship, especially in BDSM ones. If you don't think of me as someone reliable and trust me, how could this work? I'd always try my best to prove you that. It's not easy to earn one's trust and it's even less easy to keep it. To me these premises are not given, and I'm extremely serious about all of it. It's not just a way to "sound nice" and catch some attention. But with that said, let's dive into the rest of the post.

I don't think clinginess is something bad or wrong. And I really want to write this down just like that. The reason is simple: I think these days people are getting scared of the idea of committing so much that they even see commitment when there's none. I am looking for a dynamic that doesn't feel pressuring, but pleasuring. Let's build a strong intimacy and pleasure together to the point of having butterflies in the stomach any time we see a text pop up. Besides including caregiving and domination, can we also make it fun, easygoing and with no pressure? Don't get me wrong: I take the idea of dynamic and my role as dominant quite seriously, I just don't want to make you feel more limited than what we agree on. Speaking of fun, I should say I am a very sexual and flirty person. No, that doesn't mean sex is all I want to talk about, and no, it doesn't mean I want you to undress right away. I am stating this because I don't want it to feel like a surprise later and because I want to find a like-minded partner for this and because I want to make it clear that my idea of domination is strictly sexual: most tasks, rules and punishments would be along the sexual aspects. Outside those, I am a caregiver. I want to talk to you if you need advices, guidance, if you just feel like venting or need someone to listen to you. Rough and strict sexually, sweet and gentle as caregiver.

My goal is to stand out with my genuine personality and idea of dynamic. I know I haven't written anything about me, but that's good right? I love questions and that should push you into getting in touch to know more. Don't worry, I won't bite!