TL/DR:

• You should be active, exercise regularly, prioritize mental health and be drug and disease free and gainfully employed.
• I am looking for vanilla compatibility first. Kink second.
• Politically, I lean left on most policy positions, and right on a couple of others.
• I am not interested in having children.
• Would love to pursue a DINK lifestyle and retire early.
• Kink should be one part of the relationship, not the sole reason it exists.
• A submissive should always be heard.
• I am looking for a submissive and monogamous Partner, not a slave or underling.
• I am a certified cuddle slut & big spoon

Limits:

The heavy forms of Sadism & Masochism, Age Play/Regression, Open relationships, Full time bratting, Animals, Anything Illegal, Blood, Body Mods, Diapers, Permanent Marks, Pet Play, Scat, Puke & Urine.

About Me:

I am a quiet and unassuming guy. I have a laid-back personality resulting in a healthy mixture of confidence, assertiveness and wit. I am 5'11" 180 lbs., physically fit, fair skinned with red hair and beard. No piercings, no tattoos & I am DDF. I am mostly an introvert, but I do enjoy a night out on the town. I am financially stable and a homeowner.

I am a certified cuddle slut & big spoon; Physical Touch is my primary love language. I am a loving & affectionate Partner & I adore non sexual intimacy & togetherness such as hand holding, chore sharing, grocery store trips, evening dog walks, and whatever else we can come up with.

I am not interested in having children. I do not dislike children, I'm at the point in my life where having them does not make sense any more, and I'm more interested in pursuing that sweet, sweet DINK lifestyle with a committed Partner and retiring early.

I like to stay fit by living an active lifestyle through my hobbies and exercise. I am an aspiring whiskey connoisseur, amateur art enthusiast, consumer of books and a fairly decent home cook. I love being outdoors whether I am hunting, fishing or hiking. I am also a huge National Park Junky! I have made it to Denali, Zion, Bryce Canyon, The Grand Canyon, Smoky Mountain, Rocky Mountain and Big Bend. My favorite color is blue, my favorite book is Green Lights and I have the sweetest Doxie pup named Toby.

Politically, I lean left on most policy positions, and right on a couple of others. To summarize, I believe in personal individual liberty and bodily autonomy.

D/s:

I have about 4.5 years experience, non consecutive. Two relationships and two play partners. I am not a rookie, but I am also not a veteran. My philosophy on D/s is simple:

• Submission & trust are a precious gift to be earned and cherished, and there are little to no second chances.
• The more inherent power I have, the more inherent responsibility I assume with it.
• Our relationship is how we build it and how we define it, not on arbitrary definitions.
• Most importantly: A submissive partner should always be heard. Just because we label ourselves as "Dom" and "sub" does not mean that we are not equals. A D/s Dynamic is still a Partnership.

I am a Gentleman/Pleasure/Daddy Dom. My style of Domination is a hybrid but is composed of mostly D/s. My method of Domination involves Power Exchanges with some elements of light Discipline & Predator/prey sprinkled in.

D/s is a facet of my life that I like to keep private, and when in a relationship I only want to share it with my sub partner as it is one more thing to deepen and strengthen our emotional bond. As much as I enjoy living a kinky lifestyle, it is not my whole personality. Kink should be one part of the relationship, not the sole reason it exists.

I would love to meet a capable, ambitious, independent & intelligent woman and form a genuine connection and monogamous relationship. Deep down you have a burning desire to thoroughly and completely submit, obey and be owned, but be loved, respected and cherished for it. You are single, emotionally available, health conscious, active, physically fit, prioritize your mental health and are DDF.

I love to manhandle and feel a size difference, so slim, petite ladies are strongly preferred. Traits I value in a Partner are kindness, class, empathy, emotional intelligence and a strong moral character. Preferably you live in Texas, but I am open to any ladies in the US that are open to relocation.

I will treat you like a Princess in public, but fuck you like my whore in private. You allow me to own your heart, mind, body & soul in the same way that you allow me to love you, thoroughly & completely. I want to cherish you for the pleasure you give me, and reward you with the pleasure you deserve.

But, before any of that, I want to get to know your heart mind, body & soul first. Because, the kind of relationship I envision is built on an intense emotional connection, commitment and friendship, bonded by trust and communication. I am looking for vanilla compatibility first. Kink second.

My kinks are not a must have "checklist", and everything within a dynamic is up for negotiation.

If this resonated with you, I would love to hear from you. Please send something more creative than "Hey" or "Hi." SFW pictures available upon request, please be considerate and willing to return the courtesy.