(North florida) Hey there, one thing that we all at least have in common is an interest in BDSM, so I hope to outline all the other aspects Im specifically looking for in this post! I’ll post a link to my favorite kinks below, but in short I am looking for a dominant male partner for a longterm relationship IRL.

I’m looking for a monogamous life partner to build a loving, trusting, mutually supportive relationship with. I am a big nerd in several ways and proud of it. I am a big talker who loves fun conversation - So I’m looking for somebody who would either be happy to listen to my yapping and compliment as an attentive listener or somebody who would join in gladly. (If you’re looking for only peace and quiet you are looking in the wrong place!) I love to banter and many would say I “give shit” to those around me, but it’s always in good fun so hoping to find somebody who doesn’t mind my jokes/jackass remarks.

I’m a very kind person who is bubbly, friendly, and outgoing. I’m a sociable person who values a friendships and people. I am primarily submissive and have deep desires to be a submissive partner in every aspect of life, but also not noticed as such in public settings. I have strong goals in my career so discretion is a must! I find deep satisfaction in giving up control to a trusted partner who enjoys holding the reins.

I want to ask somebody special about their day both the good and the bad. I very much wish to support and be there for my partner, to root for them when they need it and celebrate successes when they come. I want to be a safe place for my partner to come to when they need to be vulnerable. I want somebody who will appreciate my loyalty and value my support. I hope to find a partner to solve life’s problems with together free of stresses and petty arguments. I’d like to be a team with my partner above all else, and see them as a figure to respect rather than an enemy or somebody to nag on when frustrated.

I am 5 feet tall, 90 lbs so quite petite. I have tan / brown skin as I am south asian. I have long black hair and black eyes. I may not be everybody’s type, but I may be considered attractive to those who like petite gals with some melanin. My measurements are 32/23/33. I completed a bachelors degree in a challenging subject and have plans to attend graduate school to continue my career goals.

I hope to look for somebody who is emotionally available who is both gentle and patient with me. I seek somebody who would visit me when they can at the restaurant I sometimes wait tables at, tell me a story from their day, complain about the many idiot FL drivers, and give me something that reminded me of them. I’d love to be with somebody who is financially stable, free of major debts like I am, and knows how to spend money responsibly and within their means.

I love video games (lately a lot of Skyrim minecraft, and warhammer), anime, GoT, board games, book stores, cooking/baking, and thrift shops. I am a big car and motorcycle enthusiast. I also REQUIRE you to occasionally look at the silly memes/videos that I saved specifically for you hoping it’ll make you smile.

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