Hello, I'm 32 years old, living in Colorado and I'm a trans woman looking for a Dom/sub dynamic. I'm open to online, as long as you're 24 years old or older (I do prefer older people). Open to all genders. I'm also open to different types of dynamics, and happy to discuss them if you're willing to teach!

First off, I am polyamorous and have a wonderful partner but I've realized I need a Dom in my life. We can absolutely do more if it's on the table, but I'm largely here for that side of me. There are limits/boundaries but those can be discussed in messages.

I am a little chubby, at 220lbs and 5'5. Long brown hair (past my shoulders).

I am pre-op, meaning my factory parts are still there, but have terms and conditions (lol) relating to them I'd be happy to discuss in messages. But largely it is, I don't really plan or want to use the front bits.

Something I've come to realize is that I crave having rules, tasks and the structure of a dynamic in place. I struggle mentally without it and so I've come here to try and solve that need of mine. I crave submitting to a man naturally.

My experience up to this point is a few dynamics that introduced me to the world of BDSM and left me needing more. I've never had sex in person, but have done tasks/sexting online. Please ask me about my first dynamic that ended early this year, happy to go into details, it taught me a lot.

Outside of kink

I'm a software engineer for work, spend a lot of my time on the computer and do a lot of projects relating to coding outside of work, so I can nerd out about that stuff too.

Let's talk interests now:

Degradation (Nothing that implies I'm not a woman/”real woman”.), Discipline, Outfit control, Collaring, Anal, Anal toys, Anal training, spanking, light impact play, face slapping, orgasm control/denial, edging, bondage, objectification, chastity (sometimes), and power exchange is high on my list to try out.

I do have limits, they revolve around physical and mental health conditions I possess, and things like blood/scat/fluid play. More limits can be inquired about in our messages during our vetting of each other. I'm happy to exchange pictures as well, both SFW and not safe for work.

Hope to hear from you soon~