Hi there, and welcome to my post! Before I dive in, let me start with an important clarification: I am not looking for a Findom. This isn’t a judgment against those in the Findom community—it’s simply not a kink that aligns with my interests.

Now, onto the details about me!

About Vanilla Me Hi, I’m Jacob! I’m a 24-year-old service-oriented submissive originally from the U.S., though I’m currently stationed in Germany (yes, I’m in the military).

At my core, I’m a huge nerd and proud of it! Gaming is one of my biggest passions, whether it’s getting lost in story-driven adventures or embracing the thrill of competitive play. I’m equally captivated by technology, fantasy worlds, and sci-fi—anything that fuels my curiosity and imagination.

When I’m not immersed in gaming or geeking out, I work as a mechanic. There’s something deeply rewarding about working with my hands, solving puzzles, and bringing machines back to life. Outside of work and gaming, you’ll often find me unwinding with music or indulging in my love for anime. Whether it’s an epic, action-packed series or a soothing slice-of-life, anime holds a special place in my heart and is one of my favorite ways to relax.

About Kinky Me In the kink world, I identify as a submissive with a strong service-oriented nature. I thrive on being able to support, uplift, and care for others. Additionally, I have a soft spot for kitten dynamics, which I approach with thoughtfulness and respect. Consent and communication are always my top priorities in any dynamic I explore.

What I’m Looking For I’m searching for a TPE (Total Power Exchange) Domme who is open to building a genuine connection over time. I value my safety and trust, which is why I have a vetting process in place. I prefer not to rush into things, and I hope you’ll understand and appreciate this approach.

Here’s what I’m seeking:

Age range: 22–45 years old.

Experience: Someone who is experienced in the lifestyle and understands the importance of communication and mutual respect.

Poly-friendly: I am in a committed poly relationship with my partner, who fully supports and encourages my search for a Domme. She is a submissive-leaning switch and is happy to verify her comfort with my seeking someone else.

Structure and Consistency: I’m looking for someone who enjoys providing structure through rules, tasks, and rituals. These elements give me a sense of purpose and fulfillment in a dynamic.

Honesty and Communication: Please only message me if you are ready and willing to communicate openly. I don’t have the patience for games or emotional unavailability.

Affectionate Nature: Lastly, I’m a sucker for cuddles and would love to find someone who values warmth and closeness in a relationship.

If any of this resonates with you, I’d be delighted to hear from you! Thank you for taking the time to read my post, and I hope you have a beautiful day.