I want to listen to the sounds of a stormy night together as fall asleep in each others arms

I want to hear the smallest details of your day as we lay on the couch snuggled up.

I want the tight cage to feel like a badge of honor, knowing it's from you.

I want to take you on a scenic drive so we can roll the windows down and sing our favorite songs together.

I want to cook you dinner just to see the smile on your face as the aroma reaches your nose.

I want to feel warm and fuzzy when you say I've done a good job, made your life easier, or otherwise been a good boy.

I want us to look in one another's eyes and feel absolute trust and safety as you’re locking my cage.

I want to take you on cute dates. A round of minigolf, bowling, ice cream. Your choice.

I want our hearts to swell with pride when you say, "He's my submissive."

I want us to look at each other and feel like the luckiest people alive.

Who I am

I'm a 25-year-old Texas man who values commitment, openness, and honesty. The kinky side of me would include the following

I'm a submissive - This is deeper than just the bedroom. I want to please you in all areas of our relationship. I want to learn what makes you happy and implement it into our daily lives.

I'd describe myself as a partner pleaser - Earning words of praise from a partner, and knowing I've made her happy, is like music to my ears.

I'm happy to take initiative - Volunteer opinions and ideas, and undertake goals independently, if my partner so desires. I love being told what to do, but figuring out what to do myself is no problem. I believe a submissive who needs constant direction like a lost puppy is a liability rather than asset to their domme.

I'm service-oriented - Picture a massage after a long day, flowers on the countertop as you walk into the kitchen, or a detailed car wash. I just want to make her day brighter. I want to ease her burdens. Is that through cooking? Cleaning? Yard work? Running errands? Just tell me how I can serve!

On the vanilla side

I'm extremely driven - Especially when it comes to things and people that matter to me. Im a musician at heart so playing and writing are my natural forms of expression and I’m very committed to my art. I would enjoy singing a funny song while playing guitar just to bring a smile to your face. I’m also very driven in my career and always looking for ways to improve my value.

I'm slightly introverted - Most would describe me as quiet and shy but I have no problem being assertive when necessary. I prioritize few but close relationships over many casual ones. I can enjoy a night out just as much as a night in.

I’m very open minded - I have my opinions and I am very strong willed, but I will always hear out the other side and take these things into consideration.

My primary love language - This would be touch, I enjoy holding my partners hand, cuddling, and any other form of physical affection. Followed by words of affirmation. I love to tell my partner my true feelings and hear from them as well.

My hobbies - These include playing guitar, writing music, golfing, space observation using my telescope, working out, and researching whatever random topics grab my interest.

I love a new experience -I value partners who can expose me to new interests and experiences (and vice versa) while sharing common ones. I value a partner who isn’t afraid to put something weird or quirky out into the world. Most of the time I find that “weird” thing to be exactly what the world is missing.

Physically - I’m a 25M, about 5’10” tall, and 155lbs. I have an athletic build. Maybe more on the skinny side, but toned. Usually keep a full beard, but shave occasionally. I’ve been told I’m attractive and have a great smile. I will gladly show photos if you’d like to see.

How I plan to show value

Commitment - I will continuously strive to express my devotion to you. I'm excellent at putting together dates for quality time spent with you, verbally expressing my gratitude, and will never compromise our relationship.

Communication - I'm a quiet person, but vocal when it comes to my partner. I will never hesitate to express my feelings and thoughts.

Employment - I am a successful finance professional who is driven and motivated to work.

Health - I'm drug-free, STI-free, a non-smoker. I occasionally drink, but try to live cleanly. I also exercise regularly.

Housekeeping - I will gladly keep the house tidy. Especially in a maid outfit haha!

Always learning - I'm passionate about learning what makes my partner happy and strive to keep them satisfied.

Kinks & Limits

The primary thing I seek is connections with people whose personalities are compatible with mine. Kink and D/s dynamics are desirable but secondary.

These kinks are not requirements in the least! Every domme has their own style and emotional relationship with kink. I also believe every dynamic is unique. I'm more interested in whether a partner and I click.

Some of my kink interests - These include chastity, crossdressing / sissification, ass worship, humiliation, orgasm control, pegging, cuckolding, smelling / pheromones, bisexual encouragement, tease/denial, rewards and punishments.

Also a more unique kink of mine is a particular enjoyment from smelling my partners farts. It is by no means a deal breaker, but something about the intimacy of it is so satisfying to me. I’m also a big smells person.

As with feelings, none of my interests are must-haves. E.g., don't like humiliation? Cool, I can live without it.

I'm open to most kinks that aren't limits E.g., Bondage isn't on that list, but if my partner's into it? Perfect! Let's try it! I believe most activities (vanilla or kinky) are as enjoyable as the people you do them with.

My limits - Findom although I enjoy spoiling my partner, I want to be committed first, permanent damage, illegal activities, needles, & heavy ball busting. There may be more but that I haven’t come across but I’m open to hear all your interests.

What I seek

The real thing - A perfect scenario for me would be a long-term FLR/female-led relationship with a D/s component. Someone to be the most important person in my life. I'm most comfortable with monogamy, but would be open to the hotwife / cuckolding dynamic should it please my partner. However, knowing you only value me as a true partner is the key to my heart.

Location: Someone in Houston Texas area would be ideal. I'm open to starting online with someone farther away, with the goal of eventually meeting in person.

I’m looking forward to hearing from you. :)