Hello thanks for checking out my post!

About me: 43, 5'10", 170 lbs, white, fit, empathetic and energetic.

Body Pic of Me: https://ibb.co/yhHmGmY

My life arrangement: Just your typical SoCal native living in south OC. I am divorced and have no children. I do have 2 furbabies, so allergy alert if you’re allergic to cats, they are 2 most amazing dudes you'll ever meet though. I am gainfully employed and have my own spot that I own here in south OC. I enjoy my work and my career continues to excel. I am an IT manager by trade, climbing that IT corporate ladder one day at a time. Being an IT by trade, I love techie things so the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, let me build you a server girl 🤓. I tend to be nerdy and have been described as charismatic and funny. My hobbies include working out daily (gym 3x a week, 5m run 4x a week), and mixing music. I love nature, camping and hiking. Family is important to me so I make efforts to see mine (and if we clicked and it worked out, to see yours as well).

My Interests: Into having an intimate relationship with a girl where I can provide a safe environment. Prefer to find a girl that is into kinks, leaning towards being submissive. Kinks to include firm and hard sex, restraint, anal sex (giving), kissing, light choking, biting, spanking, slapping, role play, dirty talking and more. Interests can evolve over time so I am always open to discussing your kinks to see if they can become reality.

Limits to include: cutting, permanent marking, scat, vore, and young ageplay.

Ideally, our relationship dynamic would be carried out like above in the privacy of my home. Outside in public, I'd like to carry on a vanilla-style relationship to friends and family. Nobody would know the kinks we have and what we do together. Example: we might go out to see family, while you're wearing a plug.

We would discuss your kinks and limits. In a d/s relationship, it is all about what is comfortable for you. Your limits are the rule of law and will always be followed. Respect is the name of the game and while we'll have a relationship where I am at the Dom, your wishes are and always will be respected.

What I'm looking for: I am looking for a woman aged anywhere from 28-40 that is submissive and is looking explore a D/S relationship. I want a monogamous relationship with a girl where we chat, get to know each other better, then we can meet publicly and see if we vibe / click. If you are partnered or poly, I am not interested. I seek to date with intention with the hopes of developing a relationship that would turn into a LTR and beyond. Please be at least half sure that you are seeking a relationship. I have received messages from lots of women that want casual flings. I would like someone I can go out with to festivals, concerts, camping trips, hiking, vacations, etc. I live in southern Orange County, which is nice because it means I am right in the middle of LA, San Diego, San Bernardino, IE, and all are within striking distance.

If you enjoy festivals, concerts, or random adventures, we’ll get along. I’m always about finding an event to get into and have an adventure. Having a partner to partake in said adventures would make everything extra spicy. Women that communicate openly and honestly get me hot. Being open, honest, sharing vulnerability and building trust is even hotter. I am a very open and honest communicator as I feel it’s the most critical aspect of having a relationship with someone. As a closing note, my friends, mom, and my therapist will confirm that I’m super cool 😎

Thank you for taking the time to read this. If interested, please send me a chat request or a pm. Good luck to you on your search!