Hey there, I am hoping find long term partner or fwb. There is a ton of kinky stuff I want to try with the right person. I have done some exploring, so I have some experience. There is more I want to experience. I would really like it if I could find someone friendly and open minded to explore with me.

Ideally I hope to find a person who considers themselves a sub, but I am open to a switch. I am not interested in a dom/domme. I have been wanting to find someone that is into, or curious about the following kinks. Breast play/worship, nipple play, petplay, lactation/adult nursing, ddlg, teasing/edging, degradation/humiliation, cum play, bondage. If you are into role play/cosplay/dress up that would be amazing. It would be so much fun to do some shopping together for kinky little outfits for you and then dress you up :) (I hope you like high heels, collars, and skimpy clothing, because I'll probably get you some outfits). There is more I want to explore, but we can discuss it privately if you are interested. Please let me know about any kinks you might want to explore as well.

I would say I tend to fall into the soft dom/caregiver role. I love taking care of my partner, being intimate, and being close with my partner :) I am 100% into aftercare, kissing, cuddling for hours, and giving lots of praise. I hope you like head pats and forehead kisses.

• Me: 32yo, 6’1”, ~170lbs (in decent shape), handsome black male (cis-male). Short black hair and beard. I am college educated and I work as a software engineer. I have my own place near downtown, so I can host. I got rid of my car a while back when I went to working remote, but I am able to travel within the city depending on how close you are to downtown. My non kinky interest are mostly video games and computer stuff (like building them). Some of my favorite games are Zelda:WW (anything Zelda really totk was amazing), Transistor, and Fallout 3/NV. When I’m not up to playing games/working on computers, I am usually streaming something to watch, or learning some new programming skill. Community and PnR are some of my favorite shows. I am mostly an indoors person, but I am open to hiking/day outings/beach days/etc. I love to travel when I can and my favorite travel destination is Japan. I miss it there so much.

• You: cis-female, around my age but younger than myself is preferred, local to the greater Seattle area, single, child free, open to a relationship if we click or a fwb situation, submissive (open to a switch, but NOT a dom/domme), and willing to exchange SFW pictures/video chat before meeting. I have a preference for Asian and White women, but it's not a deal-breaker. I would be absolutely thrilled if we had some common interest. If you are into video games or conventions like ECCC or PAX we will get along perfectly. As I said I am hoping to find someone I connected with beyond just kinky stuff.

If you are interested and live in the greater Seattle message please PM or chat me. I am NOT looking for anything online only and I don't want a pen pal. If you are not open to getting coffee or something as vibe check after exchanging picture and talking and for a day or two you then we aren't going to work. If this is still up I’m probably still looking. Thanks for reading!