Hi! I am a 27yo FtM transgender man in the US Mountain time zone, and I’m looking for a dom that likes to focus on the psychological side of bdsm and wants to establish a power dynamic based on that. Ideally, we would be able to form something that fits in well with both of our daily lives. While I am looking for the focus to be on the mental aspects and in creating certain emotions and mental states, I am not looking for something theoretical and would like physical actions or tasks to be included.

For me, the most important part of a bdsm connection is to create a relationship in which I feel submissive and controlled by my partner. I like to indulge my submissive side by pleasing my dom and being put in my place below them. I work well with both soft doms and more rough or sadistic doms, and am open to various kinks or scenarios, though I do specifically enjoy when there are parts of the dynamic that are not necessarily sexual. The aspect of the dynamic that I am looking for is the mental power exchange that we establish - I am flexible on the exact methods by which we do that.

To give a better idea of what I am looking for, some things that have worked well for me in similar dynamics in the past are below. I don’t require any of these in particular, and we can determine what will work best for the both of us.

• Speech / texting restrictions

• Standing rules that I am expected to follow at all times or short term rules enforced during specific time periods

• Causal degradation / bullying / name calling during conversations to reinforce a feeling of inferiority

• Requirements for what I should be thinking about or doing while touching myself

• Enforcing schedules

• Small sexual or non-sexual tasks to complete to please you

• Chats or role play of sexy scenarios or what-ifs

• “Homework” assignments about kinky topics of your choice

Please send me a chat or a DM if you are interested and think we might be compatible. Thanks for reading!