Planning events. Picking presents. Deciding meals. The forced socialization. Being asked by the extended faily who you are dating and when you'll start being a baby factory. Listening to all the drama. Feeling exhausted and out of place because everyone seems to have very different needs in life.

Or maybe the holidays are entirely too quiet.

Wouldn't you rather be an owned object? Benefits include:

• Clear expectations and priorities
• Minimal drama
• A constant life companion in your owner
• Intentional dehumanization removes many social responsibilities
  • Can't be forced to socialize if you don't have permission to speak
  • Can skip out on family dinners because most of them won't want to see you eat out of the dog bowl
  • No worry about what outfit to wear when you can only wear what you are told to
  • No ability to buy presents when you are a stay at home possession without income
• Most decisions made for you including event schedules and meal plans
• Any missing skills provided by on-the-job training
• New year's resolutions picked for you with a clear implementation guide and goal list (punishable if you fail to meet those goals or follow the guideline)
• Low boredom because your primary purpose in life is to be my entertainment sadistically and sexually
• Regular moments of care, support and praise (anyone want to cuddle my feet in chains under a warm blanket on a dark night only lit by the Christmas tree?)

I'm an experienced Dominant who has been a part of the BDSM lifestyle for over 20 years, almost entirely in person. I've attended munches, house parties, dungeons, classes and conventions. I've taught classes and provided skills demo. I've had multiple dynamics over the years ranging from play partners to 24/7 TPE. And hopefully you can tell from the tone of this post that things aren't always super serious high protocol - people and life are complex and there needs to be a healthy mix for long lasting dynamics and relationships.

Kinks and fetishes are a very long list, so just some highlights: 24/7, Affectionate Cruelty, Anal Play/Toys/Sex, Appearance Control, Bagging, Begging, Bathroom Control, Behavior Modification, Bondage, Breast Bondage/Torture, Breath Play, Bruises, Caging/Confinement, Chastity, Collar & Leash, Consensual Nonconsent, Corset Training, Cuckquean, Degradation, Dehumanization, Discipline, Dollification, Domestic Service, Edge Play, Electrical Play, Emotional Sadism, Encasement, Enemas, Eye Contact Restrictions, Face Slapping, Fear Play, Feminization, Flogging, Free use, Gags, High Protocol, Hoods, Humiliation, Impact Play, Knives, Latex, Leather, Mind Fucks, Mummification, Needle Play, Objectification, Obedience Training, Orgasm Control/Denial, Piercings, Plastic Wrap, Predicaments, Primal, Pussy Pumping, Rope/Rigging, Sensory Deprivation, Somnophilia, Spanking, Speech Restrictions, Suspensions, Tears/Crying, Vacuum Beds, Watersports, Whips

I'm not interested in online relationships or dynamics except to get to know someone. I can travel if you aren't local and relocation is an option for the right person. Tons of information about me on my profile and I'm happy to answer questions, vet and even provide references. A number of people are out here using personals as a way to roleplay non-consensually, so please expect mutual verification within a reasonable period of time.

Good luck in your search and happy holidays. I hope you find exactly what you are looking for, even if we aren't a good match.

Damon