Hello and thank you for taking interest in my post. For the most part, I'm a kind, patient, and caring man. I'm physically and mentally healthy, between playing sports, lifting weights, maintaining a fairly challenging and rewarding career, and pursuing hobbies that keep my mind and body active. I enjoy a fairly simple, comfortable life with my wife and our two dogs. I'm interested in a wide variety of kinks, many of which I pursue within our mostly monogam-ish relationship, but there are some darker desires that don't really fit anywhere in my current lifestyle. I'm here seeking someone who might be interested in helping me indulge those desires.

First and foremost, I'm looking for someone who identifies as beta, or at the very least, inferior to my wife and me. I want to compare you and my treatment of you to her and my treatment of her. She is funemployed; I treat her like a queen, and we have an active, enjoyable sex life. You, on the other hand, should feel like you deserve to be treated like dirt, working your ass off to survive, and mostly a lonely and sexually frustrated mess. I also like when there are obvious differentiators, such as you being too young, old, overweight, underweight, poor, mentally and/or physically unhealthy, etc. I'm also incredibly turned on by all forms of desperation, even non-sexual ones like being desperate for money or friends.

Ideally, I would like someone who is willing and capable of degrading themselves. Despite loving the kink, I don't actually enjoy being mean to people all that much. I think being kind to most people most of the time makes it all that much more meaningful when I do actually degrade and humiliate someone. It's not in my nature to behave that way, but certain people can really put me in that role in a way that feels deeply satisfying.

I'm looking for a dynamic that is mostly if not entirely online, but I do travel throughout the Midwest occasionally, and would be open to eventual, occasional in-person sessions. I do not require you to live in the Midwest though. If you're a good fit, I want to hear from you. I prefer dynamics that are a comfortable mix of friendship and kink, which slowly build up over time. I'm fairly flexible with the specifics; chemistry is the most important element for me. That said, there are some go-to things I like to pursue in these dynamics: orgasm control, various types of training (hole training, slut/bimbo training, etc), rules and tasks, inspections, daily rituals and affirmations, and much more. In my experience, people bring some interesting kinks my way and I enjoy incorporating them into my plans.

In case it's not obvious, I'm not looking to develop anything resembling a romantic connection. I don't have a preference for whether or not you are in a relationship(s) of your own; in fact I enjoy an unhappily married woman probably just as much as a lonely single one. I have no racial preferences, although I have been interested in trying out raceplay (I am white). The younger or older, the better (within legal boundaries, of course). I know I'm asking for someone inferior, but please be able to hold a conversation as it's a pretty important element of online exchanges.

If you've gotten this far and I still have your interest, I want you to send me a chat or message (I have no preference). Tell me one of your best qualities, and two of your worst ones, as proof you've read the entire message. Thanks for reading.