I am an aspiring daddy-dom looking for a little/sub to cherish and pamper with affection and praise. I consider myself more of a gentle, nurturing caregiver who can be clingy and possessive, so I'm interested in the emotional, nurturing aspects of DDLG/CGL and thus an intimate dynamic with my little or sub in addition to bedroom fun. I'm also AuDHD and of the introverted species, so if you're neurodivergent too then we will get along swimmingly!

Physical characteristics:

• 5'6/168cm tall
• White with average to muscular build
• Short brown hair, beard, and blue eyes
• Cis/AMAB man

Hobbies & Interests:

• Passionate music fan, particularly heavy metal and goth. This reflects in my fashion sense with loads of black clothes, my love of autumn and winter, and all things spooky
• Avid reader of non-fiction and fiction, particularly history and horror. Currently reading HP Lovecraft; cosmic horror probably isn't a good idea before bed
• Dilettante who enjoys cramming my cranium with an assortment of random facts (still suck at Trivial Pursuit, though)
• Hiking and day trips to museums and the countryside. Would love to spoil my human with travelling frequently if she's a good girl
• PC gaming and board games; Dead by Daylight, Civilisation 5, OldSchool RuneScape Valheim, Catan, just to name a few. Would love to play a creative game with my human
• Generally quite left-leaning; regardless of its practicalities, anarchism is an interesting ideology

Kinks (non-exhaustive):

• DDlg/cgl
• Praising (giving)
• Light degradation (giving)
• Body writing
• Light bondage
• Anal (giving)
• Assplay (giving)
• Costumes/Roleplay

Who I'm looking for:

A little/sub from the UK who is younger and shorter than me for a long-term dynamic that incorporates elements of DDlg/cgl; this would eventually culminate in an offline relationship after some time getting to know each other. Someone who is also clingy, possessive and wants regular communication. Someone with similar interests and hobbies, who wants to be disciplined and put in her place while receiving nose kisses, head pats and cuddles. An angel during the day, and a nymphet by night. I'm ultimately looking for my forever human and life partner, not a short-lived online fling.

Dealbreakers:

• Only interested in UK subs/littles; I've tried long-distance and it simply never works, so I don't want to waste your time if you're abroad
• Being someone's play partner - ultimately looking for my forever human, not casual fun
• Open to experimentation but hard limits include toilet play, knife play, ABDL, cucking, and blood
• Monogamous only, I am not interested in polyamory

I'm open to all ethnicities, races, and most body types, but too overweight is a limit for me (chubby is fine). Message me with your favourite band, book, or game so I know you've read this. Happy to exchange selfies after some correspondence first. Hope to hear from you soon!