The Gist:
I'm looking for something casual, long-ish term, with no attachments. I'm not interested in a partner right now, more of a FWB sort of thing. I'm certainly into older men, but I'm not against a smaller age gap. I prefer someone between the ages of 30-55.
About Me:
You can call me Sera. I'm a 21-year-old busy young woman, who's looking for some human interaction between my two part-time jobs. I consider myself to be an introvert who really likes people, but I can't stand party scenes very much and hate seeing people make fools of themselves in public. I am very much reserved. I am a submissive through and through, a people pleaser, and a very sensitive girl.
I enjoy cooking, gaming, cats, and rainy weather. I'm 5'1" and about 175 pounds (and have lost 40 so far!). As you can imagine, I'm a big girl, but I plan on losing more (so if you're into chubby girls, just know that might change). I live in the United States [PST], but since I'm not looking for anything IRL, any location is welcome. I work at a bar and have a schedule that is all over the place. Chatters from other countries are highly encouraged. I admire intelligence and would enjoy it as an aspect of our dynamic.
Communication is important to me. Although I am into extreme kinks, I expect to be greeted with respect before getting into any roleplay/chatting. I would like to chat with someone who is interested in a fair mix of sfw and nsfw.
My Experience:
I consider myself semi-immersed in the kink/BDSM community online but have very minimal experience in person. I have only had one partner and the relationship ended bitterly.
My hard yes's:
- Pet play (I enjoy puppy, kitty, bunny, etc.). Nothing too serious here and honestly leaning more on the side of furry stuff rather than leather puppy play.
- DDLG/Age gaps (have I mentioned that I like older men enough?). I have a big daddy kink.
- Pet names and name calling. I like degradation and praise in almost equal amounts. I think you can call me anything you'd like, as long as you stay away from the word slave. Cunt is a-okay.
- Toys (I have some available at home that you may ask about if interested).
- Aftercare messages will be important to me.
- CNC/misogyny/groping
- Denial and edging (I lurk on r/Femaleorgasmdenial)
My hard no's:
- Nothing illegal (obvi)
- Love-bombing
- Under 25
- Scat/vomit
- Age regression (ABDL; "cutesy" talk. I will not behave like a child).
- Body shaming. (In regards to pet play and other kinks - do not call me fat, pig, piggy)
- Permanent markings, self-harm, autoerotic asphyxiation, or anything that could otherwise put me in serious danger or at risk.
- Toxic dom behavior: no demands "for the sake of the kink" or simply because you aren't getting your way. While I may be open to intense chat behaviors, no demanding pics, videos, etc.
- As of now, voice chatting is a no. I will not be providing any face pics, so I'm okay if you choose to do the same. Though I want something anonymous, I am willing to send a simple pic with my username u/ActiveAd7194 as verification that I am a real person - if the three-year-old account doesn't do it for you. I would appreciate/respect it if you did the same.
Looking forward to it!
<3 Sera
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