Hello people of reddit, I am here because just like you I have a need to scratch. I want to connect with a partner who loves attention and validation, someone who is spontaneously clingy, submissive and obedient.

There is a lot to say so brace yourself. I have a gentle but stern dominant personality. Especially in kinky situations, it feels like the primal urge takes the best of me and turns me into a strict person who loves control more than anything else. I am not looking for a one time thing or just texting when horny (seriously - what's going on lately? What happened to genuine long term subs?) I probably could use many BDSM labels to define myself but the easiest and quickest way to describe who I am is that I will genuinely make you feel like and spoil you like a princess if you treat me like your king.

The kind of partner I am looking for this is someone who enjoys attention and validation more than anything else. Does that get you so weak on your knees and need it so bad that turns you a little slutty? That's exactly what I want. And of course I need to point out that looking for a bimbo to me does not necessarily mean I will settle just for physical attraction. My goal for this dynamic is build a connection so strong that we end up being obsessed with each other in the best way possible.

Now, let's get some formalities out of the way. People online can be awful. Both when it comes to communication or just being wicked. I am none of them, when texting me you should expect that I do not take your submission as a given, I will treat you with respect and try my best to get to know you. Be like-minded. Just because I like giving attention does not mean everyone deserves it. I also put both mine and your safety as priorities. Open to verificate even fairly soon.

With all of that being said, here are my favourite kinks and limits. Fair to say I am a pleasure Dom and quite kink-friendly, it turns me on to mess up with your mind and inside your panties and that's somewhat of a kink to me. On top of that I absolutely like a cum slut, orgasm control, rules, denial, anal play, show offs, teasing, mixing praising and degrading (little slut/good girl dichotomy), light impact play, all forms of it. As for limits, I am careful about not exceeding with control and interfere with life outside of kink. No blackmail, race play, heavy pain, bruises or causing bleeding. I'll completely avoid illegal things, animals being involved and scat/gore