As the title states, I am looking for someone who is a submissive at heart and into BDSM.

About me

I am a 29 year old Male, from India, and on here looking for a submissive, preferably online, but I dont mind moving to irl in the future if we vibe and have a genuine connection, but if irl isn't possible, then online works for me too. I have done my studies in Business and Entrepreneurship, and handle my own Business. I would say I am pretty sarcastic and funny, and love to make people laugh. I am an introvert at heart though and like to be a homebody whenever possible. I also am kind of a nerd in that I love reading lots and lots of books/mangas, into video and board games, and what have you. I can hold up a conversation very well, and can talk about a plethora of topics, and am always curious about learning new things. Im also a sapiosexual and to me, there is nothing sexier than a smart, intelligent woman. I also like cooking and can cook a great meal.

I have been exploring my sexuality a lot and am really kink-friendly, and really enjoy the whole Dom/sub dynamic. I have been in this lifestyle for a while now, have played with a couple of subs, learning a lot about me in the process, and now I feel I am at a place where I think I know what I want.

What I want

While I like to be in control and am a dominant, I also am caring, kind, and understanding. I've found that I like showering my partner with affection and care outside the D/s play. I like taking care of her, complimenting her, and just being there for her. I want to get to know you more outside of the D/s dynamic. I want you to come to me first with any problem you have, want you to tell me about your day, your guilty pleasures, want to hear the song that you listen to on repeat again and again, want to celebrate with you when you nail a presentation at work, want to hear what your fears are and what brings you joy, want to hear your thoughts when you lay under the stars looking at them, I want someone who will fully open up to me, albeit slowly. I will in no way rush you or force you to but I want someone whole and vulnerable, just like me.

At the same time, I also like to be rough, will discipline you when required, use your holes for my pleasure and leave some marks on your body in the process ;). But, submission is earned and not taken. I would like to talk a lot first to see if we both are compatible with each other and or not. Also, D/s for me is not just about sex. It's also about improving you and me in other aspects of life.

Mental health issues are something I deal with from time to time, and so do many people I have met over time and I have huge understanding and empathy towards it. So don't be hesitant to open up about them with me if you feel like you need someone to listen.

Communication is also really important to me, so you know, don't shy away from communicating your needs at all. I also won't push you into doing anything you don't want to and will always respect your wants and limits.

What should you expect

Well, shoot me a message if you

• Like being taken care of ;
• Like to be showered with affection;
• Like being treated like a personal fucktoy;
• Like to just turn off your thoughts and let someone else make the decisions for you;
• Enjoy talking and spending time together and talking about the silliest of things to the most serious topics out there;
• Like to be treated to meals that I cook for you;
• Like someone who communicates his wants and needs clearly (and expects you to do the same);
• Like someone who will take charge and control of your life;

And well there's a lot of things I could write and talk about. I have intentionally kept the sexual stuff to a minimum in the post as I think that is something I prefer we discuss later privately after we get to know each other more and find if we are compatible or not. If any of the above piques your interest, don't hesitate to drop me a Dm.