Hey there! I am a 31 year old male from America living in Central London. I’m looking for a long term relationship that has kink inside of it. While it does say London and UK, I’m not opposed to anything online either as long as there is great communication!

About me: All of this will be in American measurements for my ease. I am 5’10” 225 lbs blue eyes, brown hair. So averageish but I am going to the gym 4-6 times a week to turn athletic. As mentioned above, I am 31 years old no kids. I am a massive nerd. I can discuss current geopolitics and also how the Jedi Order was truly corrupt. I love to travel, amusement parks, museums, walking, going to the gym, and theatre.

Deeper about me: so look, I’m looking for my future forever. I know they are out there (and yes I’m on the dating apps but they are horrible). I am a goofball, golden retriever type person who just loves to love and loves to support. I’m huge into boundaries and respect as I know it’s a two way street. I will always treat a romantic partner as an extension of myself. I place massive emphasis on communication and boundaries. My love languages are quality time and physical touch.

Red flags about me: so everyone should be able to put their own red flags out there. I am divorced and that happened 5 years ago. I have really dated since until a month ago. I took that time to heal and get help and it worked for the most part. I do overthink and that can look like trust issues. These are my issues to deal with and not yours. I have been getting a lot better. I tend to attach quickly as well, not love bomb (cause that happened to me) but more like want to spend free time with my partner. I have my own hobbies and friends so I tend to use them as my escape.

Kinks: So now comes the fun part! I have been in the kink world for 10 years now. Lots of research, 2 long term relationships (not with the ex), and more research have given me a great understanding of who I am as a Dom. I am a soft Dom. I love being compassionate and caring until you push the right buttons. Then I go into my sadist, dominate, possessive person I can be. My kinks range all over the place and I’m an “experimentalist”. I’ll try anything twice (can’t know if you only try it once). My hard limit that I have discovered is scat and my soft limits are piss and blood. It’s still a developing list and I value communication above all.

If you want to get to know me, shoot me a message! I’d love to get to know you more.