Are you looking for a fun, exciting, and kinky relationship? Would you like being with a creative dom who never lets things get old and is constantly coming up with new ways to excite you? Someone who will always support and care for you?

I’m 30M, 6’4”, average weight, and am in decent shape and get to the gym regularly. I’m looking for a submissive woman who loves bdsm, especially bondage, to enter a long-term dynamic with and be my forever partner.

I want to build a life with someone that incorporates bdsm into daily life, but not completely overtaking normal life with it. Kinks are fun, but we’re still our own independent people. Frequent bondage, oral, some training, orgasm denial/control, chastity, and free use are some of my favorite kinks, but I have a lot more too and am open to exploring! The most important thing to me is that you share my excitement as we explore each other’s kinks and use them to grow a deeper bond.

My background: I’m an engineer and have a good career so if you’re looking for someone with a stable life, I can provide that. I am liberal, have no kids and no debt, and I’m not looking to have kids.

My interests:

Reading

Writing (I publish fantasy novels!)

International travel

Online/Tabletop games/RPGs/anime

Hiking

I would prefer to share some interests with my partner, but our hobbies don’t need to be a perfect match. I’m always happy to explore new interests together and learn about what you love, too.

I'm also very into artistic bondage and am learning shibari ties. If that's your thing, we'll get along even better! Bonus points if you enjoy tabletop RPGs. Being your dungeon master in every way is a special perk of being with me!

If any of this sounds like what you’re looking for then shoot me a message and let’s chat! Happy to start out online, and move to IRL soon if we hit it off. I'm willing and able to relocate in the US for the right person.