Hey!

This is a bit of a read so I hope you are comfortable! The TLDR of it is — if you are new to BDSM and either have a million questions about it OR dominance and submission, I am a message away if you feel like talking!

If you do want to message me but find yourself anxious and constantly rewriting the initial message, send me a ☘️ emoji and I’ll know you want to talk and I’ll try to get the ball rolling. Just know you are more than welcome and there is no time limit to this post. It won’t self destruct after you read it!

So hello! I’m an ancient 37 year old primal dominant from Australia. Every so often I like to leave this floating in the interwebs — just in case it reaches the mind of someone that’s perhaps new to BDSM or curious to Dominance / submission and they’re feeling frazzled and overwhelmed and need to talk to someone but are a little shy and prefer a 1-on-1 chat.

Would you like to? Please do not second guess yourself. Easier said then done — I know what it’s like to be at the beginning of that journey: when I started off learning about my dominance and my deepest, darkest fantasies, I was a sweaty, nervous wreck. I thought I was losing my mind. More than that: I was terrified! Of change. Of rebooting my life, rewriting all that I was to start anew.

I’ve been exploring my dominance and primal side for about 10 years now. And seeing as I’m a little more older now and a little more knowledgable I thought I’d start this ad and reach out, maybe connect and help someone that was like me: Someone wants to vent or discuss kink but feels frozen and unable to take that first step.

So if you’re curious, please don’t self-edit. Don’t delete. Don’t hesitate. Your feelings and fantasies are valid! There’s no judgement here, even if you’re inexperienced. We all start somewhere and I’ll be here to chat if and when you are wanting to.

Still here? Awesome! Here’s a bit about me outside of kink:

So I’m introverted. Bit of a quiet homebody. I like my books and my movies and my quiet days under a blanket naked reading or writing. Some of my stories are under my profile if you want to read.

I’m fond of pugs, Mexican food, coffee, heavy metal and horror movies, watching storms unravel around me. Tell me a ghost story, I love those. Folk stories and old weird history fascinates me. My ideal world is a farm full of animals — not too isolated from the city: I need my city comforts. But cats, dogs, ducks - a cosy cabin or shack. That’s my mood.

As a Dom, I consider myself a primal, which is just a way of being intimate - getting back to an animal state of mind: all growling and running naked and licking and biting and being free to express that side of my love language. I love nature and storms and being naked out in the rain. I like collars and leashes and exploring each other’s minds and fantasies. That’s beautiful to me. I find freedom and beauty in that.

I can tell you that l see being primal as a pact to myself. To be open without fear to myself and to others and to life itself. To challenge this anxiety within me. It’s become a lifestyle choice in a way - to be my truest self. Not to be an ass or anything but to be present and not trapped by my own self doubt. To live, not exist.

Annnnd I’m going to stop this novel here. If you’re still with me, thank you for reading and please don’t hesitate to reach out! Either in a message or chat. Chat notifications can be wonky sometimes.