I'm a 36 yo male sub based in London looking to meet up with someone IRL. I’m 180ish cm tall and just over 70kg, so a skinny/slim build, fair skinned, clean shaven, and DDF. I am primarily looking for a long-term relationship with an FLR aspect to it but am open to something more casual too. I’m in SW London so am looking for someone who lives in the city and somewhat close by. Ideally you are also mid-to-late 20s or older and have some prior experience with kink.

Hobbies-wise, I'm into a few outdoor activities like cycling and long walks. I go to gigs and live music shows around once a month and have recently picked up my guitar again. I read a lot of non-fiction, mostly history and politics, but also Steinbeck amongst other modern American authors. I'm also into pub quizzes and would be more than up for finding someone to go and win one with.

On the kinky side, I’m conscientious sub who identifies as a rope bunny. For me submission is about giving myself up to someone else, I want to be someone's plaything, to be directed and controlled, to satisfy someone else's whims. I tend to prefer a more gentle domme but am comfortable with someone who has sadistic tendencies too. As far as specific activities go, I'm into bondage, predicaments, task fulfilment, face sitting/oral, being collared and am comfortable with impact play and anal play.

Limits for me include ageplay, poo/pee, playing under the influence of alcohol or other drugs, leaving permanent marks (though anything temporary is fine), gore, and choking/breath play.

I am very open to other ideas and happy to chat further about kinks and limits as we go.

Lastly, I wholly subscribe to the safe, sane, and consensual mantra and I would expect anyone I play with to do the same.

Hopefully this has interested a few of you, and if so, please don’t hesitate to send me a message and I’ll try to reply as soon as I can.