Hello!

I am looking for a female sub with any experience level (especially like new subs) for a long term, online dynamic. You must be, at least, 18. Upper age limit is... 55(?).

About me: I'm 38, quite tall, brown hair, lean/fit, and I am located in EST. A time difference can be worked around for the right person. I work in a professional field but am still able to chat throughout the day. I do expect good communication, as it is a big component of an online dynamic. This would not be purely sexual. I want to know you well and for us to be able to build trust and a good friendship. I enjoy traveling, nature, animals, solving puzzles, psychology, learning about other cultures and viewpoints. I am well balanced and emotionally mature.

As a Dom: I believe flexibility is required and for my approach to be appropriate to each unique individual. I am more interested in the mental aspect of a D/s dynamic.

I can be quite the caring, very gentle, kind, understanding, and patient Dom. I can hold a safe space for the more sensitive, even traumatized, subs to explore new kinks and healing techniques. Supportive with gentle role reinforcement.

I can also be an extremely stern, strict, and controlling disciplinarian/Master. You would have many rules. I would expect perfect obedience. Any bratty behaviour would result in swift, appropriate punishment. High expectations.

Below are some ideas of what I would like a D/s dynamic to look like (nothing is a deal-breaker). Flexibility is needed to find balance in this type of dynamic with each unique individual (so the degree of each may vary).

Privacy. I will not ask for last names, exact locations, or other sensitive information. Pictures (if you are comfortable with that) will never be shared and will be deleted at your request.

Excellent communication (good morning and goodnight messages, chatting throughout the day). Mental domination. I want to climb into your head and consume your every thought to make you desperate to please me. I want to make you squirm, to be so wet and aching that you'd do anything. Pet names (both praising and "affectionately" degrading). You will wear a collar at all times (a discreet "collar" could be used, such as a bracelet, necklace, or a ring). A leash may be used during scenes. You would have some freedom, but I am quite stern and like to hold the leash pretty tight. If I feel that leash tug, it's a punishment. TPE would be great, but not necessary. I understand that takes a great degree of trust. A point system could be used for tasks. You could redeem them for rewards or fantasies that are within my ability. You will answer my questions using the title we decide on. (Yes, Master. / No, Daddy. / I understand, Sir.) If you would like to ask a question, then my title must be used. i If I snap my fingers (message you), you immediately come and kneel. You could keep a journal about our scenes or your punishment, describing how you felt. Your entry should include what you liked, what you didn't like, and any other comments. I will read it with an open mind and use it to further our dynamic. Orgasm control/denial.

Punishments: There may be limits for how long you could play with yourself, what toys you are allowed to use. Writing lines, depending on the corresponding misbehaviour. Only allowed to use your non-dominant hand. Random punishments chosen from a bowl.

Again, all of these are ideas and we would need to address what would work and what wouldn't.

I also want to give you what you need, provided you have been obedient and respectful. You will always have some level of aftercare (even if it's a kind disciplinary chat about misbehaviour). Any safe words established will always be respected. I love giving praise when it is due. You will always have someone to talk to outside of play.

I appreciate you reading my post. If you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask. I'd love to hear from you through chat or messages. I hope you find what you need.