Posting a new ad because my requirements are changing a bit and I’m not sure to those I didn’t reply to if you are still looking or meet the things I need still, so here we are.

I am open to the idea of a long term relationship with the right person but it’s not exactly my goal currently. Brownie points though if you are single and seeking a DD dynamic.

In life I need a person to keep me on the right track. I don’t do anything terribly wreckless like drinking heavily or drugs. But that doesn’t mean that I still don’t require more in terms of setting and completing goals, getting chores and things done, making healthy choices, etc.

I have done this successfully in the past and I can tell you that for me it worked well if the person who was my Dominant in this regard used a variety of things as both rewards and consequences. I am a definite spanko so this should be an aspect in the dynamic. We can discuss each more in detail but on face value you should know I’m not looking to make this a heavily sexual dynamic and do not want tasks related to videos, photos, masturbation, etc.

I have found the Obedience app to work really well but I’m open to an alternative if you prefer.

I prefer someone who has time to check in and make sure I am on task and not afraid to hold me accountable. If there was ever a time where I was unable to adhere to my tasks I also want someone who is reasonable with expectations for life. I don’t want this to be seen as testing the dynamic - life in this way is predictable and can easily be accommodated.

I will tell you that I struggle with some things mental health wise and can get overwhelmed. Things like clean a room til it’s done is simply not a functional plan for me. I do much better with time increments like 15mins spent organizing my filing cabinet or being given a specific task to do like vacuum.

Age should be above 35 and location in North America. Previously I had said they were not important but honestly ghosting and time calculations of 5 hours to communicate are too tedious I think. Special brownie points if you are more of the Daddy Dom type - I have some middly tendencies but they aren’t required to be placated if it’s not your thing.