Please don’t message me if you’re looking for an online relationship or if you don’t currently live in Pittsburgh, PA full time. I cannot stress this enough. If you’re not in a position where you could meet me in person in the next week or two, I’m not the sub for you. I will not flirt and send you pictures endlessly. Find a chatbot.

I’m a submissive female with about 25 years experience with power exchange relationships. I’m looking for a Dominant cisgender male ages 35-55ish to be my primary partner in a longer term committed relationship. I’m fine with ENM. You can have as many play partners as you’d like, but I am not looking for polyamory. I want something monogomish.

I’m looking for someone with a steady job, hobbies they enjoy, and an active lifestyle. You don’t have to be in ideal shape (I’m not) but I want someone I can hike, ski, and swim with on vacations and who can sustain an active sex and kink lifestyle.

I’m a sexual submissive, not a service sub. I work a full time job and maintain my own house. I won’t clean up after you, but I am neat and organized, and I make an excellent executive submissive. I tend to fill in the gaps where my Dom needs support pretty effectively.

I’ll post a limited kinks list below just for alignment but I’m pretty open minded about whatever my partners might be into, so definitely not an exhaustive list. - Rope/bondage - Moderate impact play - Breath play - CNC - Rough sex - Hair pulling

Do not low effort PM me. I’m not interested in your “hey” and I will not respond. I also don’t want your dick pics. I love sex too, but I’m looking for more than just that in a partner.

Finally, if I did not respond to your previous message, I apologize. I did read them all but I got quite a few and some were clearly not what I was looking for. I do appreciate the effort. I’m reposting because it almost worked last time but was a bit of a swing and a miss.