As the title says, I'm a young guy who loves the world of submission and BDSM. Since I was very young I have felt the need to let other people exercise power over me, I guess because of my adolescence (where I was looking to go unnoticed) or maybe simply because I like the idea of someone else taking the reins for me (both in a sexual sense and in everyday life). Since I discovered what submission was I have explored different forms of it, from the softest to the most extreme with online content and with a few doms too (but nothing serious) and after a long time with failed attempts to leave this world I have ended up assuming that it is my way of life and I always end up thinking about it, especially in sexual terms. After discovering blackmail and TPE, I have seen that it can be a good way to force my fears to the maximum and discover my limits by gathering all my submission fetishes in a single person who give total power over me and correct bad aspects of me or my life.
As me im 21 white, bit fit, bit hairy (but isn't a problem wax specific parts of my body) , not to tall, with normal face (not ugly but not super handsome either, maybe with self-esteem issues). Will give more phisical info during our chats.
As for what I'm looking for, is basically that, a dom M or F (feel physical attraction for women, but i saw that men can enter in this context. I guess for the simple fact that I see as another form of domination beeing controlled by someone who I dont like normally), which controls my sex life and part of my daily life for a long time and who I can serve and please exploring fantasies with me.
*Although I love a hard dom most of the time, I would love to start with a normal conversation (do not start so direct, I am a fearful person and many dom only ask you info and photos without establishing any link before and try to extort you with money and other things) where we gain confidence over time and can be friendly at times, because in addition to the dom-sub relationship I would like to create a “friendship” between us.
As kinks I have hundreds and I'm sure I would leave many but I can include some now: FEET, CUCKOLD, TECHDOM, CEI, DAILY TASKS, JOI, SISSY, DENIAL, DICE OR OTHER RISK GAMES, CHASTITY, RUINED ORGASM AND POST TORTURE, BI FORCING, WORSHIPPING, FOODPLAY, TOILET THINGS, CLOTH PLAY, PUBLIC, ANIMAL, EXTREME..
As for limits (not skippable): anal games (can play a bit but not comfortable inducing anything on it), strong physical damage, permanent marks, money (can be used when buying complements or as a sporadic thing for something, but not as the main or important thing) and may include some during our chats. And within the world of blackmail and here I feel that many doms will jump me for this but I do not see myself with courage to do so and less without much confidence : show my face (I have no problem in my body, even in putting a mask to cover my face and show the rest), I would not give super specific info (especially at the beginning) as personal accounts, IDs, close contacts or super sensitive info (I said I was fearful :( ,but I'm open to explore little by little).
I want you to have power over me, but not want ruin my life. IF EVEN WITH ALL THIS YOU WANT ME TO BE YOURS YOU MIGHT BE THE DOM I'VE BEEN LOOKING FOR AND I HOPE I CAN BE YOUR DESIRED SUB TOO
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