I'm a 43 year old pleasure Dom who finds intelligence sexy in a partner and since I'm looking for a continuous relationship instead of a random one time session, building a connection and being able to chat outside of the scene about non sexual subjects are essential to me. Although Practicing BDSM is as an escape for me from daily life to unwind my brain and relax, but I hope we will be able to create such comfortable atmosphere for each other that we can grow and become better of ourselves. Nothing values more than honesty to me, so if you're already in a relationship, but you hide what you do in here from your significant other then probably we're not a good match for each other. I also enjoy being like a mentor toward my sub.

I have a job and life like you do, so I understand that neither of us can be available all the time in here or on any other platform that we might choose to continue this, but I don't think daily check ins or short messages take that much time from either side and it shows the importance of this relationship to the other side.

The sub I am looking for is: female (preferably bi), between 25 to 55, kind of nerdy, has a good sense of humor, obedient but not passive, prefers healthy foods, has a strong personality in her daily life, is direct and enjoys long chats, likes to know how things work.

Ok, now a bit more elaboration kink-wise ;)

My Kinks: nipple and breast play with mild torturing, verbal degrading/humiliating, orgasm control (not into denial), over stimulation, soft impact play, CMNF. some level of cuckquean/hot-husbanding fantasy (but it's not essential)

My Limits: blood, scat, anything illegal, CNC, TPE, DD/lg, ageplay, raceplay, breeding, giving bruises or permanent marks.

Not a big fan of : anal play (but it's negotiable), big tattoos, piercings in places other than ears or belly button, fake boobs (breast cancer survivors excluded)

If you feel that our kinks align and we're on the same page then hit me up so we can discuss further through chat and see where it goes but don't contact if you are looking for someone to subscribe on your onlyfans or other links of yours. thank you