6'1, 235 pounds. Shaved head, beard, some tattoos. Single, retired young. No kids at home.

Too many of these ads are little more than a kinks list. While I believe sharing kinks is important, it's not what drives my motivation to find the perfect slave (for me).

Although I desire a IRL 24/7 TPE, CNC, Free-Use Sado/maso dynamic with control, rituals and protocol that remains in place at all times, that's not what motivates me to post this ad.

What motivates me most strongly is love. Many people don't view the image of a man keeping a woman kneeling before him as loving. They imagine the woman in restraints offering her helpless body to his will and use as "abusive" or "toxic". In their minds, they simply cannot fathom the level of trust and affection that develops between a Master and his valued slave. I tried to come up with a deeper word than "valued" but my vocabulary fails me.

The slave I seek is a woman I would fight and die for, provide for, possess to her very core. She wouldn't have to work outside the home, only please me and keep a warm, comfortable home for us. She loves to laugh and enjoy life, she has hobbies and interests that I support and encourage. She doesn't demand "respect" because she knows that if she lives her role, I won't be able to resist respecting her as a slave, a woman and a human being. She doesn't DEMAND anything, but trusts that I love her, that I'm watching her closely, monitoring her as she sinks deeper and deeper into her role. She knows she's the most valuable thing I own, and that I will keep her safe, crafting an environment in which she can become who she knows in her heart she was born to be.

These are the things that motivate me. Those things that create the type of daily life that feeds contentment to both of us.

Sex? Yes, sex is great and there will be a LOT of it. It's an expression of commitment and desire between Master and slave just as it is between any married couple. Ours just features a lot more toys; restraints, pain-play implements, pleasure devices, etc. Vanilla simply does nothing for me. BORING! I must dominate and possess my girl, taking what I want and giving to her what I decide.

My house is quiet. Empty. I miss hearing my slave bumping around the house, doing the things she does. Maybe humming or singing to herself. I miss the simple companionship, enjoying coffee together, chatting about the events of day. The passenger seat of my car is empty. I want to see something interesting pass and turn to see if you saw it too. I want to make you play with yourself on the highway, risking being seen by other motorists as I reach over and touch you.

There are so many posts and ads with so many conditions. How the dynamic I seek gels and coalesces, it isn't defined in stone before I ever even meet you. I do have a set of requirements, like everyone else. He's who I seek:

Younger than me. 18-45 seems a reasonable range.

Height/weight proportionate. We can all work on toning up, but BBW do not interest me.

Willing to Relocate. I do NOT do the online thing.

Willing to quickly exchange SFW pics. I'm not a pic collector.

Serious about entering a dynamic like I described. I am SO tired of silly women who enjoy the thought and love talking about it, making plans and dreams and then disappearing.

Willing to move to another chat platform quickly. Reddit is buggy and I don't get audible notifications of an incoming messages. Voice calls and eventual videos calls required. I don't sext or demand nudes, I'm on a serious search for a committed, RL dynamic.