Are you looking to have control over an experienced sub who has no problems taking things slow? If so, you might be in the right place. I am a guy from the middle of Europe, standing at around 1,75m high, in my early thirties, slim, somewhat feminine body, with plenty of previous BDSM experience. I am looking for a controlling and creative dom or domme. Age-wise I would say preferably in your thirties or older. I would describe my experience in BDSM as a masochist and when it comes to real life dynamics also a service sub. If you are looking for a slave without limits and concerns, or if you just want to roleplay a fantasy, then please move on because I am not that person.

Instead, you will find that I am a self-reflecting person with a repertoire of kinks that in my opinion just work very well together. In my real life, I work full time in a stable job which I very much enjoy, I regularly do sports, and I have a passion for gaming and of course wasting time on the internet. I can and might talk forever about movies, TV shows, anime and music.

If you would describe yourself as a creative person, as very dominant and a sadist and would enjoy having power over a chill submissive, then let's talk. I do offer pretty much a full set of toys, so your creativity can run free.

First and foremost I like to find someone shares my fascinations and kinks. I want this to be a journey and its just so important to find somebody who is not in it for more than a session. If this fits for both of us, then I would like this to be long-term. I would like to communicate at once or twice a day, but more is preferred if possible. Please take a look at my kinks below, I know it is not much but the rest we need to figure out in a more dialog-driven way.

Fem: To me, this means panties, and sometimes wearing bras or stockings under day to day clothes. Maybe wearing a feminine scent or a corset for body shaping. Sometimes full girl clothes at home. I am currently trying to dress and present more female as much as that is possible. I am very open to more feminisation, and it would just be good in general if you were into a femboy look at least. I like calm and elegant black over cliche pink. I do not like to do this for the purpose of humiliation, I like to do this because it looks good. I am ready to invest a little more in my wardrobe if this is something we share.

Pain: Turns out that I am pretty masochistic. In most situations I really enjoy pain. In fact, I can orgasm from pain alone, which is a blessing and a curse considering my next kink in this list. But pain is definitely a turn on and a spanking, clamps and other sources of pain are almost always a great addition. Please also be into causing pain. I also quite adore stress positions and predicament bondage.

Chastity: Chastity and Orgasm Denial are also essential to me. While there are the odd moments of weakness, most of the time I just prefer to stay horny. Ideally in a small device. While I am not a huge fan of edging or other activities, I also quite enjoy how a chastity belt can grip everything down there, remind you of its presence and prevent everything from growing more than allowed. I am currently wearing pretty much 24/7, so this is definitely something I would love continue.

Cages: Ever since I started my BDSM journey, I felt that cages are just something special. They limit where you can go and what you can do, even how much you can stretch. I currently do not own a cage, but I would be willing to invest in one at some point if we share that kink. If the image of your own slave in a collar and chastity belt, chained to some immovable object with a very short chain for a very long time sounds like fun, then we might click.

Collars: Love them as a symbol of submission. They are easy to wear at home and I quite enjoy that reminder. Currently I am not interested in taking them outside, but I had a great experience with chains that serve as ankle or hip bands for longer-term play. In my opinion, collars are another reminder to the wearer and not a clear sign to other people outside of the BDSM dynamic.

Humiliation: In private I am open to almost anything. I have plenty of real life experience with watersports and even some with diapers, if you are into this for the loss of control aspect (ageplay is not for me). I have grown to enjoy the humiliation kink quite a bit.

If you share my interests and if you are interested in building something up together, even if it means taking it slow at times, then please drop me a PM. Lets compare kinks and expectations, or even just share stories of past sessions. We will figure out if we are compatible.