Hey there! Good morning, afternoon, or evening — depending on your time zone. This is my first time posting so I’ll probably ramble.

Let's start with the basics:

Please, for the love of all things decent, don't message me if you aren’t serious, submissive or a woman. Just hit the back button and let's pretend this never happened. Also I’m not looking to play games so if you aren’t willing to exchange pictures on Snapchat this won’t work out, I’m not looking for a purely text based dynamic and will look to verify early on. SFW is fine just need to know you are who you say you are.

I’m Thomas! A 29 year old lawyer; don’t let the straight laced job fool you. For me being dominant isn’t role play it’s inherently who in am.Trust and communication are non-negotiable for me. I love deep conversations that keep you up late into the night, where you lose track of time because the connection just feels so real and effortless. There’s something beautiful about that kind of vulnerability and frankly is essential for a dynamic to grow. Bonus points if you’re funny, because I appreciate a good laugh as much as a meaningful conversation. I’m looking for a connection where trust can grow and both of us can just be ourselves—honest, open, and vulnerable.

Now, the part you've been waiting for…My Kinks. This is a smattering of kinks you don’t need to be into all of them each dynamic is different and a wonderful exploration.

• Orgasm control/edging
• TPE
• Bondage
• Toys
• Praise
• Aftercare
• Free use —impact play
• Trust and communication (Yeah, yeah, not a kink, but this is the bedrock of any dynamic)

There's more, but let's leave a little mystery

Here's the list of hard no’s:

• The usual no-go's: kids, animals, blood, extreme violence — you know the drill.

I love music, reading, cooking, and doing anything outdoors; hiking, paddle boarding, biking, etc. I’m pretty social but I appreciate my alone time to recharge. I’m 6’3”, blonde, blue eyes.

If you've managed to get through my rambling and are still intrigued, message me and tell me about yourself and why you think we’d be a good match.

Thomas