We’re a real life couple (33M Dom and 24F Sub) on the harder end of kink both in terms of what we want to try in the bedroom and how it is part of our daily lives. We value something committed where real trust can be formed allowing for something more complex and kinkier as a dynamic (we’re not the casual sex types).

In the bedroom we don’t tend to stick to a kink ‘list’ as such since our curiosity really gets led all over the place. We lean towards the unusual or extreme and so someone who enjoys going deeper into her passions but perhaps hasn’t turned kinky thoughts into kinky reality yet would fit us well.

Cracking the traditional whip is fun but you’re more likely to find us at the hardware store coming up with imaginative ways to repurpose different things. We would love to see you as an extension of that imagination, coming up with ways to use and repurpose you as an extension of our kink life. Rules and training help to shape you into something which serves us, designed to excite and please.

And then, only when you are dismissed… we can chat about gaming and movies!...

• We’re gamer nerds at heart with a sense of humour to match. Creative, musical, funny and movie-lovers (especially horror!). You would really need to be a ‘play partner’ in several senses of the word haha

• We enjoy discussing all sorts of things, usually off the back of an interesting tiktok we’ve seen - nature, sciencey stuff, movies/tv, social-sciences, art/drawing. So ask us lots of questions and be curious!

• We both have a big love of music and a wide taste but it has to be said… “Dad rock” tops the list. If you have an alt/rock girl vibe then that’s a big plus.

• Attractive couple, average shape (not gym-goers not slobs).

• Definitely an alt/rock/nerdy vibe (he has the long hair, she dyes hers red, maybe that gives a bit of an idea?).

We would probably prefer you had less experience in a dynamic but be able to show good knowledge. It’s an open-to-explore, find out together what we want to be type arrangement.

If you’re someone who shares our values and passion both on a personal level and with kink then come tell us about yourself.