Hi, you can call me Neil for now.

I'm looking for an IRL ongoing FWB, but I'm certainly open to more. I'm here to find someone with matched interests and sex drive. I'm not sure if anything will come of this post, but I think it's worth a shot.

About me:

I'm currently wrapping up university. I'm into a decent variety of music, but am a 2000s pop punk kid at heart (this may be a deal-breaker more than anything below, lol). I do like to stay in a good amount, but am always up for an adventure.

5'9

white

200lbs

Conversation and how we get on is the most important thing to me. I am looking for a friend first, then more. I'm generally anti-overt horniness out of the gate and just want to chat and hear more about you. I could put some more personality tid-bits here and whatnot, but I'd really prefer to just chat and see. If we like each other, we can meet somewhere neutral and go from there. Given the sub this is in, I'll skip to the next part.

NSFW:

It's a pretty standard opener, but I'm the type of person who will try most anything once. Hard limits are going to be the common ones: permanent damage, anything illegal, scat/similar. There's a lot of niche things out there, so just ask and I'll let you know.

I've only been kinky in the bedroom and only been in a dominant role. I'd love to meet someone who's willing to change either of those things. I'm curious about a dynamic and could see myself in a few different roles, so if you have one in mind just ask!

I definitely lean dominant, but primarily in a pleasure/softdom way. I do like a little bit of roughness mixed in for flavor including inflicting (bearable) pain to highlight or enhance pleasure.

I do have a largely untapped sadistic side that I'd love to explore. For me, though, it has to originate in the other person's wants. I've got a switch there. Once you put something on the table, it toggles that switch for me and I want it too. I could see myself thoroughly enjoying something up to a forced and aggressive CNC scenario, but only if we've had a good conversation about it and I'm confident it's firmly in your kinks.

One of my biggest wants right now would be to tie you up so I have unfettered access to all of you. I want to take my time addressing and caressing every inch of you. I want to toy between inflicting bearable pain and soothing it with pleasure. I want to get you off as many times and in as many different ways as I can (hand, mouth, toy, etc.)

All of that said, I would also love it if someone else took control. I'm not entirely sure where my ideals/wants meet reality there, but I'd love someone to explore that side with. Don't be hesitant if you're mostly a sub. I don't want that all the time, but not never either. Ya know? I don't think I'd be very into degradation or things of that nature. Again, though, unexplored territory here. If you want something, I'll at least give it a try.

Really, ask and ye shall receive. I'm down for a lot and just looking for someone to match that energy.

Looking for:

Someone around my age

I have no specific physical desires, that's stupid. Attraction's obviously gotta be there for the both of us, but we'll get there when we're chatting. I'm just looking for someone I can definitively wrap my arms around and manhandle a little bit (or a lot).

Unfortunately, there's a TON of fake people online. I'm not looking to pay you to talk to me and I'm particularly fond of my kidneys and would like to hold onto them. I'm just looking for someone to connect with. So while I am down to chat initially for a bit, I will ask for verification that you're a real person fairly early on. I will 100% return the favor.

If all of that appeals to you, send me a message with a little bit about yourself and your interests. I'm very much looking forward to what you have to say!