Hi hi, Me again!

I’m a rambler in my posts so here goes!

I’ve been looking for a suitable Dom on/off for a while now and not having much luck, but it’s okay because I am a very hopeful person! My main issue seems to be attraction, because I am very Demisexual it can take some time before the sexual attraction clicks, which is fine because when it does click, it can be intense. However! Sometimes I can just know right off the bat if it’s going to work or not. So yeah, you’ve been warned. I’m a tough nut to crack haha!

• Looking for: honestly I really want a caregiver more than anything, I love the idea of a master/owner too but the main quality i’m looking for is someone loving that wants to take care of me in all of the ways and I want to give up as much control as I can. I am a very soft person at heart which comes across as very intense because I care so much about everyone and everything that I do. I really just want someone to match that energy and not give up on me. I like a lot of communication, I’m really excited about outfit control, tasks and punishments. I want someone to laugh with, talk with, share music and memes with every day! I want the passion and excitement that comes with new relationships but as friends as well as partners.

• About me: I definitely consider myself a middle more than a little. I wouldn’t say I have a ‘little space’ it’s more of who I am as a person and some days it’s more intense than others. I don’t really enjoy being babied too much but i’m so excited to have someone read to me before bed. I do love being a brat and I am very sassy but only because I want to be put in my place. I like to do a lot of things I normally do when embracing my middle side. I love to cook and bake, I love to read and colour. I love to make beaded bracelets and looking forward to mailing you gifts in the mail. Looks wise for me, hhhmmm. Without sounding too arrogant hahaha! I am kinda naturally attractive, I have a pretty face, i’m very tall (5’11) and naturally curvy with a hour glass shape. Definitely the BTG of your nerdy dreams but I spend more time in leggings and hoodies these days coz i’m old and want to be comfy. I am a huge fucking dork though which balances it all out. Oh! And I’m super ADHD and I have a lot of neurospicy idiosyncrasies that come with it. Loool.

• Kinks: I have a HUGE praise kink. Dd/lg, cg/l (and all the stuff that comes with it) pet play, anal, oral fixation (giving), impact play, bondage. I really want to get into role playing. Uuhhhmmm curious about degradation and humiliation but need someone to help me with this.

Turn offs: - Not reading my posts. Honestly can’t tell you how many times people don’t read or comprehend shit. Is it laziness?? I don’t know but please. Please read it all. If you’re not sure, ask. - Not knowing what Demisexual means and being hyper sexual and kink focused from the get go. - Low effort replies or ‘ask me anything i’m an open book’. I’ve made such a thoughtful post, please send a thoughtful reply. - Pet names from the get go. - Younger than 27 or older than 45.

Bonus points: - You’re a yapper like meee! - You’re queeeeeerrr as fuuuucck. - You live off plants and live a healthy lifestyle. - You have an accent or deep voice.

Last important note: I’m married but I am polyamorous. My husband and I date separately but I am only looking for one other relationship/dynamic.

Okaaaay. That’s enough for now. Speak soooooon.