I believe it will be around two years since I have been into this lifestyle. A lot has changed since then. I have had few relationships (all online) where I have learned my fair share of things. Earlier I was never open to having something IRL but now that I know I need this type of lifestyle I’m open to having something IRL too only if someone is looking for something long- termed and serious. I’m open to having something online as well but it won’t be just a fling, all the things I have mentioned below are needed for me.

As far as I have understood about myself, I’m a submissive, masochist, brat and a slave too. It depends on how my partner is and what they can bring out in me and vice versa.

Coming to what I like the most, Power exchange and mental domination is my top most priority. I like to see my partner as someone who is superior to me, someone I look up to. As mentioned earlier, this is my priority so I would not compromise on it at all, it is must for me so if you don’t like that or are not into it, I’m not the one for you. I like being reminded of my place, I like being shut down when needed, I want to belong to someone completely. Basically, I want to be owned.

Having said that, I like the physical aspects of the relationship/dynamic too. I like being used, I like pain,edging, orgasm control/denial, pun/funishments, impact play, nipple play, teasing, humiliation and degradation, CNC, misogyny, praise and open to more.

Things I would expect or want from you: 1. Monogamy. I like it when my partner is possessive of me. That’s why, I want to be owned and hence I want a monogamous relationship. I want someone who understands what it means to truly own someone, I want to slowly lose control and belong to just him. 2. I want someone who is a sadist, someone who would derive pleasure from inflicting pain on me and fucking with my mind. At the same time, I want someone who can take care of me too, someone I can talk to, rant to, have a conversation with. Basically, someone who can make me cry but take care of me later on too. 3. Communication and honesty is very important for me. Being in a long term and serious relationship/dynamic requires putting in effort and communicating well. If you think, you cannot do that or don’t have the time for it. Please, don’t engage with me. Let’s not waste each other’s time.

Somethings that can be a dealbreaker: 1. If you want to take it IRL, my age limit to that is 24 - 28. Give or take a year. If it is purely online then, 24 - 35. Give or take a year. 2. I’m looking for someone in the IST time zone. It doesn’t usually work when you are in a different time zone. If you’re an Indian living somewhere which is 2 hours ahead or below IST, we can consider an online dynamic. 3. I want someone who is experienced and knows what he is doing. I’m not looking for someone who is fresh into this lifestyle.

If you resonated with my post, please do reach out to me. We can talk and see if it works out. Please don’t just drop a “Hi” be more engaging, it helps starting the conversation well. Just to be clear, I’m open to both online and IRL depends on how things go. Please don’t reach out to me if you’re not looking for something long termed, serious and doesn’t truly know about this lifestyle.