Essex in England

MALE FOR FEMALE

My name is Al. I’m 38, white, 6ft tall, dad bod but strong and built, well hung and bearded. A rugged and gritty bear of a man.

I’m a sadist first and foremost with some daddy like qualities. I have been a Dom for twenty years - I am experienced and I like to think I’m pretty good at it. I’m patient, understanding and respectful of boundaries and limits - I like to push, but never cross and I am incredibly focused on providing aftercare, dealing with sub drop and building up my sub after breaking them

I’m also absolutely non judgmental when it comes to kinks, I’m into some twisted stuff myself so very likely to enjoy things you do - and if not, I’m up for giving them a go and exploring with you.

Outside of kink I am a huge nerd who enjoys sci fi, horror, fantasy, superhero stuff etc. I love live music and I’m pretty good in the kitchen.

I have a wickedly dark and deadpan sense of humour.

I am in a long term, open relationship. My partner is fully aware.

As a realist, I understand that kink cannot be a 24/7 dynamic - jobs, studies, social commitments and life in general get in the way.

I find that dynamics based entirely on kink start incredibly bright and then fizzle out within a few days.

I want to be in this for the long term. My previous dynamic lasted for a little over two years so I am in this for the long haul. I want a partner who can converse and talk about their day to day, their hobbies and interests with me. Ideally someone who might consider themselves clingy or craves attention from their dom.

I like to view dynamics as a two way street. I want you to be able to indulge in your favourite kinks as well as enjoying mine. It’s much more fun if my sub enjoys themselves rather than going through the motions of indulging in kinks they don’t enjoy.

If you have any interest in possibly chatting some more, drop me a chat and let’s go from there.