Trying this again because why not; I put too much effort into writing this for no one to read it lol. Cuffing (collaring) season is upon us and it has filled me with nothing but intense lust and desire for a kinky new connection. I have been absolutely craving a new sub to take care of and nurture while teaching and training her to be my perfect little cumslut.

Anyway let me not get ahead of myself lol. My name's Patrick, I'm 32, and I've been involved in the BDSM scene for well over a decade now. fuck that makes me feel old lol :( I'm located in East Northport, Long Island, so ideally you're in the area too (I'd potentially be willing to explore something online for the right girl).

I'm a Dominant, hedonist, exhibitionist, and lover of all things kinky. I'd say I'm conventionally attractive, but you can be the judge of that yourself.

Physically speaking, I'm 5'11, 180 lbs, dark brown hair, green-golden hazel eyes, slim-ish athletic build, well maintained haircut/beard. Well dressed and smell great 98.4% of the time because I'm lowkey kind of obsessed with collecting cologne lol.

Emotionally speaking, I'm very expressive and genuine, I wear my heart on my sleeve so to speak. Super comfortable in my own skin and secure in who I am as a person. I like to think I do my part to balance out all the toxic masculinity that pervades the scene lol. I enjoy being affectionate as much as I enjoy being degrading. I value strong communication and know how to communicate effectively both in and out of the bedroom.

When it comes to the dynamic, I'm really open to anything right now, from casual play partners to TPE and everything in between. (We would obviously have to build up to something like tpe but I'm just saying). And I'm definitely open to something romantic if the feelings develop naturally.

The oversimplified way I'll put my ideal dynamic is this: A psychological roller coaster of emotions ranging from pure affection to total degradation, but regardless of the mood, you'll always feel like my little slutty fucktoy and I will always take care of you.

I inject a lot of emotion into my dynamics. I get off on playing with the psychological aspects of bdsm as much as (if not more than) the sexual. I am very vocal and love to talk dirty to my sub while having my way with her. (In addition to of course checking in with her periodically to make sure she's doing ok.) There's nothing more satisfying to me than taking control over a cute little girl and putting her into a deep sub-space where she belongs, taking care of her needs while training her to be my perfect little cumslut. I don't want to come off as cocky, but I'm very good at it.

Sub-space goes hand in hand in with a sub's ability to trust her Dom. That underlying trust is the foundation of a healthy bdsm dynamic imo. I know that there are tons of fake doms out there, so I just want to make it abundantly clear to you that I take that trust very, very seriously and would never betray it under any circumstance. Obviously I don't expect you to simply take my word for it, but I'm willing to put in the work outside of the bedroom until that level of trust and comfortability develops.

Kink wise, Bondage, orgasm control/denial, edging, forced orgasms, overstimulation, impact, CNC, and free use are my absolute top favorites. But I'm a total pervert so I'm into basically everything that's considered a normal kink. Love bringing any and all toys into the bedroom and am always growing my collection. Super heavy impact isn't an absolute necessity for me but I'm still more than happy to satisfy any masochistic needs you may have. Not into any weird shit obv, not gonna even waste time and type them out individually.

I get off a lot on pleasuring my sub (when she's good) so a large part of my focus when planning a scene goes into including your favorite kinks and any fantasies you may have.

Emotional intellect, willingness to serve/learn, and overall connection are the most important qualities I am looking for. I have no problem verifying myself, will send face pics once we start talking.

Priority definitely goes to any girls who are willing meet up sooner rather than later. Not that I'm expecting to jump straight into a dynamic or anything. We can just grab a drink or coffee or something and see how we vibe in person.

Also I can't remember if I mentioned this or not but it is extremely, extremely important to me that you feel comfortable, safe, and taken care of at all times. And that goes the same whether in the middle of a scene or the first time we meet up somewhere. Just because I might want to fuck you like a nasty little whore doesn't mean I don't genuinely care about your well being as a person.

If you've made it this far thanks for reading, I hope my rambling made sense lol. DM me if you think we'd be a good match.